Are attractive childless women over 35 a catch?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attractive childless woman over 35 is a great catch for a divorced dad in his 40s. She made it to 35 so that means she has her own money and isn't looking for a benefactor. And very likely to be in a high income field (law, doctor, consulting, banking, SES federal) than their married female counterparts at the same age.

Lol why would a rich successful beautiful 35 and over woman lower herself so much and pick a divorced dad? I have easily gotten hot men under 40 to have a monogamous relationship with. Broke a few hearts along the way.

Well, why hasn't she landed Mr Right yet?

I see lots of childless women in wealthy parts of NW DC, Bethesda, and Chevy Chase marrying the divorced dad and starting Family #2 - "our baby" said unironically.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attractive childless woman over 35 is a great catch for a divorced dad in his 40s. She made it to 35 so that means she has her own money and isn't looking for a benefactor. And very likely to be in a high income field (law, doctor, consulting, banking, SES federal) than their married female counterparts at the same age.

Lol why would a rich successful beautiful 35 and over woman lower herself so much and pick a divorced dad? I have easily gotten hot men under 40 to have a monogamous relationship with. Broke a few hearts along the way.

+1
Exactly
No need to settle for dumpy divorced dad when she has maybe the best options of her life. And lots of young men who love women in that age range

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attractive childless woman over 35 is a great catch for a divorced dad in his 40s. She made it to 35 so that means she has her own money and isn't looking for a benefactor. And very likely to be in a high income field (law, doctor, consulting, banking, SES federal) than their married female counterparts at the same age.

Lol why would a rich successful beautiful 35 and over woman lower herself so much and pick a divorced dad? I have easily gotten hot men under 40 to have a monogamous relationship with. Broke a few hearts along the way.

Well, why hasn't she landed Mr Right yet?

I see lots of childless women in wealthy parts of NW DC, Bethesda, and Chevy Chase marrying the divorced dad and starting Family #2 - "our baby" said unironically.

They will only marry a divorced dad if he's super loaded and wants to have "ours babies".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attractive childless woman over 35 is a great catch for a divorced dad in his 40s. She made it to 35 so that means she has her own money and isn't looking for a benefactor. And very likely to be in a high income field (law, doctor, consulting, banking, SES federal) than their married female counterparts at the same age.

Lol why would a rich successful beautiful 35 and over woman lower herself so much and pick a divorced dad? I have easily gotten hot men under 40 to have a monogamous relationship with. Broke a few hearts along the way.

Well, why hasn't she landed Mr Right yet?

I see lots of childless women in wealthy parts of NW DC, Bethesda, and Chevy Chase marrying the divorced dad and starting Family #2 - "our baby" said unironically.

They will only marry a divorced dad if he's super loaded and wants to have "ours babies".

Unfortunately what is repeatedly said on this forum that childless women in their 30s aren't interested in have children with divorced dad is different from what I have observed. I know of two recently divorced men one I know just age for sure because he is my friend he is 51 and just got a 1 year old daughter 1 year after he got married. His wife is 39. The other I don't know his age but has to be close to 50 his second wife has a baby bump she looks in her 30s.

Maybe these women are marrying these men out of desperation to have children. For these men though it's such a bad deal starting over in your 50s. It's very likely these women will dump them too at some point now that they have children.

[Anonymous]

Women over 35, you often here these excuses

They say there aren't good men around
They bragg about Getting Hit on from younger men
They say Men Are Intimidated by their independence success or whatever

Within 1 hour on being on date with these women you realize how lonely and desperate they are

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attractive childless woman over 35 is a great catch for a divorced dad in his 40s. She made it to 35 so that means she has her own money and isn't looking for a benefactor. And very likely to be in a high income field (law, doctor, consulting, banking, SES federal) than their married female counterparts at the same age.

Lol why would a rich successful beautiful 35 and over woman lower herself so much and pick a divorced dad? I have easily gotten hot men under 40 to have a monogamous relationship with. Broke a few hearts along the way.

Well, why hasn't she landed Mr Right yet?

I see lots of childless women in wealthy parts of NW DC, Bethesda, and Chevy Chase marrying the divorced dad and starting Family #2 - "our baby" said unironically.

They will only marry a divorced dad if he's super loaded and wants to have "ours babies".

Unfortunately what is repeatedly said on this forum that childless women in their 30s aren't interested in have children with divorced dad is different from what I have observed. I know of two recently divorced men one I know just age for sure because he is my friend he is 51 and just got a 1 year old daughter 1 year after he got married. His wife is 39. The other I don't know his age but has to be close to 50 his second wife has a baby bump she looks in her 30s.

Maybe these women are marrying these men out of desperation to have children. For these men though it's such a bad deal starting over in your 50s. It's very likely these women will dump them too at some point now that they have children.

Agreed - it's a bad deal once you crunch the numbers. But the ones I know who have $$$$ basically require their 2nd wives to do 99% of kid stuff in exchange for FT nanny, weekly housecleaning, and SAHW who maybe has a hobby-job ("interior design"). Dad is rarely engaged in a meaningful manner.

The guys like having a good looking younger wife who is stylish arm candy, even if it means another 22+ years of new expenses. It's not logical.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I want kids but not with a 35 years old geriatric woman
But if you want to remain childless hey I am sure you can a guy who wants to be childless as well and to him you are super attractive

Thanks but FYI my periods have always been regular and normal cycle and length. Never took birth control to mess up my hormones. Always been healthy and no health setbacks like other much younger women who have issues.

What is the point of this? Yes, that respondent was rude, but 35+ is considered a "geriatric pregnancy." What "health setbacks" are you even talking about? You're still over 35, no matter how healthy you are (as am I, and there's nothing wrong with that).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I want kids but not with a 35 years old geriatric woman
But if you want to remain childless hey I am sure you can a guy who wants to be childless as well and to him you are super attractive

Thanks but FYI my periods have always been regular and normal cycle and length. Never took birth control to mess up my hormones. Always been healthy and no health setbacks like other much younger women who have issues.

What is the point of this? Yes, that respondent was rude, but 35+ is considered a "geriatric pregnancy." What "health setbacks" are you even talking about? You're still over 35, no matter how healthy you are (as am I, and there's nothing wrong with that).

The previous rude man who responded said I'd only be with men who want to be childless making the clear assumption I can't procreate. There are plenty of women in their 20s who have had health setbacks (pcos, thyroid, fibroid, early meno, etc) making the assumption every woman over 35 isn't healthy is dumb.

[Anonymous]

Those health setbacks cause miscarriage or infertility in women under 35

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This means nothing. You seem shallow since all you're mentioning about the men are their looks. Nothing about their personalities at all.

They have sweet personalities. One loves to give me gifts. He hinted a ring already but I can't make up my mind with these men. I haven't slept with none of these men yet.

Go back to 4th grade for some grammar lessons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After a certain age personality plays a bigger role than looks. Yes, looks are important at the beginning. But, real men looking to settle down by that age already know looks fade but personality doesn't.

I know one very beautiful women in her early 40s who is not married. She was the IT girl in college, after college, and even now. She worked as a reporter and is very very attractive. Turns heads at the office, street, restaurant, etc. But, she's still not married.

Sounds like she chose not to marry. A lot of people in their 20s and 30s are getting vasectomies and choosing a childless life early on.

Child free.

I chose at about age 7. Never changed my mind. I really don't like kids -- most parents are even more annoying..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
You haven't slept with none of them, or you haven't slept with any of them?

LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This means nothing. You seem shallow since all you're mentioning about the men are their looks. Nothing about their personalities at all.

They have sweet personalities. One loves to give me gifts. He hinted a ring already but I can't make up my mind with these men. I haven't slept with none of these men yet.

Go back to 4th grade for some grammar lessons.

I can tell you only know one language with that stick up your butt

[Anonymous]

A lot of divorced guys with kids who are 40ish date childless women around that age. It's easier logistically than dating someone who also has kids. And some of him end up marrying and having another kid or two.

[Anonymous]

I know of two recently divorced men one I know just age for sure because he is my friend he is 51 and just got a 1 year old daughter 1 year after he got married. His wife is 39. The other I don't know his age but has to be close to 50 his second wife has a baby bump she looks in her 30s.

Holy cow my head hurts now.