| Yes, with kids with flight anxiety it is well worth the upcharge and knowing that we will sit together. |
This is the right attitude. You weighed the options and were ok if it didn’t work out. |
| Airlines do this because fees are not subject to passenger ticket tax |
Did they seat you together automatically or did you select seats at checkin? We are flying Air France and it says I can select for free at checkin. Anyone know if there will be seats together left then? Or if our default seats will be together? |
| I do when I am with my kids because the alternative is my kid ends up next to some random adult for an entire flight or the flight attendants are we are split and then make someone else move last minute. If I were flying alone I would not pay the fee. Actually I probably would to avoid a middle seat. |
And on multiple occasions I have paid for seats for my family to be together and they have been scrambled due to equipment changes and then the gate agents refuse to correct the issue. So please realize that some of us who are negotiating on the plane to sit with our minor children on overnight flights are not narcissists. We are victims of American Airlines horrible customer service. |
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We fly southwest to avoid this and also to avoid people who are going to freak out about being asked to accommodate a family with young kids sitting together. We also really like their "bags fly free" policy. When we fly to Europe we use airlines that seat families together. I think the EU actually requires this so flying within Europe you don't have to worry.
I wish people realized that this is about the airline screwing people and being dishonest in pricing, not people being "narcs." It used to be that seat selection was baked into the price along with checked bags and other *totally normal* aspects of flying. Doing a seat price and then nickel and diming you for everything else is a way to obscure the cost of flying so that they can charge more while claiming in advertising that they charge less. It's BS. Americans should demand better transparency in pricing and not accept policies like this that actually make flying worse for everyone. The insane thing to me is that even if you pay to select your seat, if the flight is canceled and you wind up on another flight they don't even refund your fee for the seat you never even used. So a family of four could spend an extra $400 for seats together and then wind up having to beg people to move so they could sit with their little kids anyway. That's deranged! |
Not sure about Air France but how early is their check in? When we've flown other European airlines with similar policies we had no issue getting 3 seats together at checkin. I think this was 24 hours before the flight? But these were more "budget" carriers like SAS where I think fewer people choose to pay in advance so there are plenty of seats available as long as you log in as soon as you can. I might also just reach out directly to Air France because they may guarantee families can sit together no matter what. Many European airlines have this policy because if EU rules. They aren't required to follow EU rules for flights out of the US but they may choose to do so anyway. |
Oh I also meant to note that usually you can check the status of the seating in the weeks leading up to your flight by going in like you're going to pay just to see what's available. Then if it's starting to get full you can either suck it up and pay or contact the airline to see if they guarantee parents can sit with minors (I'd do the latter first). |
No airlines do this because it generates more revenue with zero expense to them. |
| OP if you pick the lowest fare, you’ve opted out of this sort of thing. That’s why it was the lowest fare. If you picked a higher fare class, it would have been “included.” I know it’s all kind of a shell game, but this one makes sense to me. You’re changing your ticket from the lowest cost one to one that has some features of the higher cost ones. |
| Sometimes. We don't want our younger kid to sit alone so we'll pay for a parent and a child. Older kid and other parent get whatever is available when free check-in occurs. |
| I take my luck checking in as early as possible. My kids are young enough the airlines have to sit us together (we don’t fly budget airlines) and if we get stuck in a middle section such is life. Usually I manage a perfectly nice window seat at the back of the plane. |
This. We don’t pay an extra fee because we don’t buy the super cheap no frills fare. |
LOL Thanks for stating the obvious! |