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Why are you so desperate to look for husbands overseas? If you can't find one on your own, try local matchmakers and apps. |
I grew up Orthodox and everyone in my family except for 1 or 2 cousins wears rings on their left hands. |
You might not want to be polygamous, but even if he were an unmarried virgin, once he's married to you there is nothing to stop him from getting married to another woman. Lots of men from those countries have a wife in the west, and another wife back home. |
I wasn't/ I am not looking overseas. We began chatting on an app that's not for dating. |
| Pakistani born and raised here tend to wear wedding rings, so does westernized Pakistani in Pakistan itself. |
No problem then to begin with. |
It doesn't matter anymore. My point is it turned into something else, it didn't start with me seeking a man overseas. |
It's part of his culture to wear his wedding ring on his right hand. He is married and didn't think to take it off. |
No its not part of that culture. |
In that case, there is no harm if you two are able to visit each other and investigate backgrounds. |
Take a Xanax OP. Or was it really his left hand and the image was flipped? |
People are really out here looking for a 40 year old virgin?? |
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Source: I lived in Karachi for two years.
Will not waste time with long explanation, but I can 100% guarantee this man has a wife in Pakistan if that is where his parents are. The marriages are arranged by parents at a relatively young age, and not being married is considered strange. These aren't "love matches", and the new young wife (often a cousin) moves in with the man's parents. It's super common for the wife to stay behind when the man goes overseas for work or school. |
I know it's hard to believe for the typical dcum Man or woman who was a hoe in the past. |
He's in his 30s, and I didn't care about that. |