What’s it like for a man to be in love?

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Anonymous wrote:You just think of the person all the time including first thing in the morning.

How is that different than a crush or lust?

For lust my brain goes into x rated role with the woman immediately.
Crush is in a gray area the intensity is different and it is R rated.

How is the intensity different?

It’s like have a crush with the barista from your local coffee shop.
You like to see her when you go in the morning but when you are out of the door you don’t think about her anymore.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You just think of the person all the time including first thing in the morning.

How is that different than a crush or lust?

For lust my brain goes into x rated role with the woman immediately.
Crush is in a gray area the intensity is different and it is R rated.

How is the intensity different?

It’s like have a crush with the barista from your local coffee shop.
You like to see her when you go in the morning but when you are out of the door you don’t think about her anymore.

That’s the lust?

Whereas the crush is thinking of them more often?

And what about the love?

[Anonymous]

I doubt the love chemicals during the honeymoon phase are very different between men and women.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You just think of the person all the time including first thing in the morning.

How is that different than a crush or lust?

For lust my brain goes into x rated role with the woman immediately.
Crush is in a gray area the intensity is different and it is R rated.

How is the intensity different?

It’s like have a crush with the barista from your local coffee shop.
You like to see her when you go in the morning but when you are out of the door you don’t think about her anymore.

That’s the lust?

Whereas the crush is thinking of them more often?

And what about the love?

Let’s say I go to my favorite coffee shop
and there is a woman with nice figures in a short tennis outfit.
My brain might go to x rated that is lust.
The barista example is a crush.
For love there is prime location in your brain occupying a lot of space.
Which is thinking about them a lot of the time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You just think of the person all the time including first thing in the morning.

How is that different than a crush or lust?

For lust my brain goes into x rated role with the woman immediately.
Crush is in a gray area the intensity is different and it is R rated.

How is the intensity different?

It’s like have a crush with the barista from your local coffee shop.
You like to see her when you go in the morning but when you are out of the door you don’t think about her anymore.

That’s the lust?

Whereas the crush is thinking of them more often?

And what about the love?

Let’s say I go to my favorite coffee shop
and there is a woman with nice figures in a short tennis outfit.
My brain might go to x rated that is lust.
The barista example is a crush.
For love there is prime location in your brain occupying a lot of space.
Which is thinking about them a lot of the time.

Y’all 100 percent confused

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You just think of the person all the time including first thing in the morning.

How is that different than a crush or lust?

For lust my brain goes into x rated role with the woman immediately.
Crush is in a gray area the intensity is different and it is R rated.

How is the intensity different?

It’s like have a crush with the barista from your local coffee shop.
You like to see her when you go in the morning but when you are out of the door you don’t think about her anymore.

That’s the lust?

Whereas the crush is thinking of them more often?

And what about the love?

Let’s say I go to my favorite coffee shop
and there is a woman with nice figures in a short tennis outfit.
My brain might go to x rated that is lust.
The barista example is a crush.
For love there is prime location in your brain occupying a lot of space.
Which is thinking about them a lot of the time.

Ohhh I get it

So basically anyone you think about when you don’t see them, that’s love?

[Anonymous]

^^think about consistently over a period of time I mean

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You just think of the person all the time including first thing in the morning.

How is that different than a crush or lust?

For lust my brain goes into x rated role with the woman immediately.
Crush is in a gray area the intensity is different and it is R rated.

How is the intensity different?

It’s like have a crush with the barista from your local coffee shop.
You like to see her when you go in the morning but when you are out of the door you don’t think about her anymore.

That’s the lust?

Whereas the crush is thinking of them more often?

And what about the love?

Let’s say I go to my favorite coffee shop
and there is a woman with nice figures in a short tennis outfit.
My brain might go to x rated that is lust.
The barista example is a crush.
For love there is prime location in your brain occupying a lot of space.
Which is thinking about them a lot of the time.

Ohhh I get it

So basically anyone you think about when you don’t see them, that’s love?

Yes, you think positive thoughts frequently about them.

[Anonymous]

I knew this feeling once…got my heart ripped out and being in love was the best thing until it wasn’t. I know I was too because what I felt for this person I never felt with someone before or after.

A piece of me left with her I’ll never get back and all that I can give anyone is what I have left.

So I advise against it. Most likely you’ll end up where I’m at and have been. Buy a dog instead

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You just think of the person all the time including first thing in the morning.

How is that different than a crush or lust?

For lust my brain goes into x rated role with the woman immediately.
Crush is in a gray area the intensity is different and it is R rated.

How is the intensity different?

It’s like have a crush with the barista from your local coffee shop.
You like to see her when you go in the morning but when you are out of the door you don’t think about her anymore.

That’s the lust?

Whereas the crush is thinking of them more often?

And what about the love?

Let’s say I go to my favorite coffee shop
and there is a woman with nice figures in a short tennis outfit.
My brain might go to x rated that is lust.
The barista example is a crush.
For love there is prime location in your brain occupying a lot of space.
Which is thinking about them a lot of the time.

I should caution that all men don’t go x-rated in the tennis outfit scenario. If tend to think about it like admiring a great work of art. I’m thinking “wow, she is attractive”, not “I want her legs wrapped around me”.

But there is something to the idea of thinking about a person when they aren’t around.