Will I regret getting rid of childhood stuff?

Anonymous
Keep only the most cherished things and ideally, if they are really that special you will want to display them rather than keep in a box as a PP already said.

A few years ago I shredded all the notes and letters I had kept, when I realized I did NOT want people to find and read those. The other day an old friend said she read some letters I had written to her that she had kept, and I cringed thinking that I had destroyed the evidence in my possession but had no control over what others had!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:My solution was to get a binder, load it with page protectors and make a scrap book. Certificates, letters, report cards, cut up yearbook to save only a few specific pages. Then took pictures of the rest. My kids love to flip thru it. I have added a few new things, concert/movie tickets, typed trip itineraries, made a few journal type entries. Did the same with my husband’s boxes of stuff. It’s also how I kept my girls mementoes, they each have 2 binders, birth thru elementary, middle school thru college.


This is what I am planning to do too! I bought the binder and page protectors awhile ago but haven’t gotten around to actually making it yet. I also will save photos and my diary/journal that I kept growing up. Wont save yearbooks or old stuffies or toys. I’ll snap a picture and toss those things.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My solution was to get a binder, load it with page protectors and make a scrap book. Certificates, letters, report cards, cut up yearbook to save only a few specific pages. Then took pictures of the rest. My kids love to flip thru it. I have added a few new things, concert/movie tickets, typed trip itineraries, made a few journal type entries. Did the same with my husband’s boxes of stuff. It’s also how I kept my girls mementoes, they each have 2 binders, birth thru elementary, middle school thru college.


This is what I am planning to do too! I bought the binder and page protectors awhile ago but haven’t gotten around to actually making it yet. I also will save photos and my diary/journal that I kept growing up. Wont save yearbooks or old stuffies or toys. I’ll snap a picture and toss those things.


This is one of first things I shredded. So much cringe and angst. If the smiles and memories had outweighed these I might have thought differently, but it made be feel bad/sad for what younger me dealt with. I own my backstory and the person I am today, but didn't need the details!
Anonymous
OP here. Just got rid of 2 boxes of stuff. Very little was actually meaningful or interesting, so it was actually much easier than I expected!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My solution was to get a binder, load it with page protectors and make a scrap book. Certificates, letters, report cards, cut up yearbook to save only a few specific pages. Then took pictures of the rest. My kids love to flip thru it. I have added a few new things, concert/movie tickets, typed trip itineraries, made a few journal type entries. Did the same with my husband’s boxes of stuff. It’s also how I kept my girls mementoes, they each have 2 binders, birth thru elementary, middle school thru college.


This is what I am planning to do too! I bought the binder and page protectors awhile ago but haven’t gotten around to actually making it yet. I also will save photos and my diary/journal that I kept growing up. Wont save yearbooks or old stuffies or toys. I’ll snap a picture and toss those things.


This is one of first things I shredded. So much cringe and angst. If the smiles and memories had outweighed these I might have thought differently, but it made be feel bad/sad for what younger me dealt with. I own my backstory and the person I am today, but didn't need the details!


Yes and you probably don't want anyone else to read those!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Just got rid of 2 boxes of stuff. Very little was actually meaningful or interesting, so it was actually much easier than I expected!


Great! Thanks for updating.
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