Been there. I’m sorry. It’s so hard when there is a child actively hurting others and you have parents judging you about not wanting your child regularly attacked. I understand that self contained classrooms are terrible, but so are classrooms where one student is free to attack and rampage against others and the classroom |
Having a class where one kid is allowed to freely attack others is terrible too. Trust me no one wants their child to witness another beat the crap out of other students or their teacher. |
There are other things - there should be a BIP that is implemented. But guess what - it is common that schools do not actually put these in place and execute them. |
| Your best bet is to push for a 1-1 aide to help the teacher. |
Where in the OP does it say this is happening? |
As a self-contained teacher, who has received many students from gen Ed, I can tell you this child is not going to get any of the supports they need and apparently they are hitting, that is an issue. Dcps does make self contained horrible though, if you don’t have teachers who bend over backwards. I am tired and leaving. You can’t force anything on parents but you need to make sure the school is documenting incidents of ‘aggression.’ And they need to have tier I-II supports in place to show the child needs tier III. |
They should be fired for telling you this. |
| When parents refuse to follow a school's recommendation, the school can go "due process". This essentially involves legal action. It is costly and is why most schools just roll over and let the parents have the say. But, if other parents in the class repeatedly complain and escalate the issue up the food chain, sometimes action is taken. Even if that means the district goes the VERY expensive route of hiring a 1:1 TA for the child who is hitting others. I urge you to complain each and every time, in writing, when your child is hurt. |
Yikes. Families have refused to get evaluated. Not everyone knows the exact lingo. I have been in special education for 15 years. Yes, yes families do refuse evals because they don’t want the ‘stigma.’ Well if we are saying your child needs support those ‘stigmas’ are going to stay regardless. |