Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Lots of crappy moms value having a boyfriend over their kids. Why do they even bring these creeps into their homes in the first place? Because they care more about themselves than their kids.
Lots of single-parent men and women date and marry new partners. It’s unfair of you to call them all selfish bc of that. The dating was not the issue. You should place the blame where it belongs, which is with the murderer, whomever that turns out to be.
If the boyfriend turns out to be the murderer, then the judgment should be on him for being a terrible human. The judgment should not be placed on the mom simply for choosing to date. No one should feel guilty for dating and wanting a partner and companionship. That is not a bad desire to have, it is natural.
Now it is up to the single parent to do their research and due diligence on new partners and choose wisely, but honestly that is still no guarantee that you haven’t chosen a nefarious person. But the same can be said of bio-parent couples too, that end up abusing or killing their kids.
Ultimately the blame lies with whomever committed the abuse. Stop vilifying single mothers for wanting to date. No one calls single dads bad people for getting remarried, so quit the double standard.
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