Comp dance is a bad idea at any age. -dancer/choreographer |
| My DD loves P.O.M. in Silver Spring. The owner is a wonderful human being and coach, and the studio emphasizes positive self-image and body confidence. They have a performance squad (non-competition) and a competition team. |
Agree!!! Agree!! Same here! |
So, you go to these dance competitions and think what you are seeing is totally normal? |
+1. I was in a college dance program. No "competitive dance kids" could get in. Their technique is terrible. Go to a studio that does actual ballet performances and has tap and jazz and modern. |
+1 (former college dancer and former dance teacher) |
3 hours of ballet per week at what age? By age 12, I was taking 1.5-3 hours of dance 5 days a week plus rehearsals (at a normal dance studio with a pre-professional dance company). I still did not become a professional. 3 hours a ballet per week is a bare minimum for learning ballet properly from age 9 or so. I would never put a kid in competitive dance. It ruins your technique and it is impossible to undo. |
| Dance is nit a competition. It is an art form. That's like saying competitive pottery. |
Noooooo...good, well intended person...sure. good technical training, no. |
You really need to take a hard look at yourself. Look at what your kid and other kids are wearing. Look at the rate of injury at comp studios. Look at your prioritizing your experience as a dance parent and how your social needs are overpowering the best interests of your child's well-being, whether she thinks she wants this or not. |
It’s DCUM, you’re either a bee yatch or a troll. Occasionally you’re a real answer. |
Same with my daughters’s friend. She wasn’t good enough to get a NYC agent or do well professionally but she started cruises and loves it. |
Ballet 3 hours a week is fine for young kids. By ten years old they need 1.5 hour classes 3-4 times a week and middle school add another hour class for pointe and 5 times 1.5 hour classes a week at least. Less than that and it shows in port de bras , turnout, bent legs. And the everything on the right side drives me crazy. It’s so noticeable. But seven is a good time to try something and see how she likes it. |
All of this. |