They can choose any school they want but once they sign a contract they should honor the contract and I guess because some people have not honored the contract in the past NCS got burned they were forced to implement this policy. It seems fair to me. I wouldn’t sign a contract if I didn’t have the intent on fulfilling it and if I had to lose the deposit that would be a chance I guess I would be willing to take. I take a contract seriously. |
Thanks, I will. You’re a peach, BTW. |
Well, the issue is that families don't even know all their options prior to having to sign this contract. As such I would not feel badly about walking away--and walking away from a deposit has been something that is common practice for decades in the DMV. Families hear from charters, publics, magnets, privates, Catholics and boarding schools on different timelines and sometimes have to lose deposits. NCS is forcing their hand of anyone who is not wealthy before they even have all of the choices. Only the wealthy get the time to decide. |
A chance you can afford to take. |
That doesn’t seem … equitable. |
| Not sure I get it - you can't afford to walk away from $5k when you are saving more than ten times that per year by going to Walls or whatever? |
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NCS is sending a loud and clear message by this: they only want the wealthy.
Which is stupid because their strongest graduates are almost always from public school, middle class to upper middle class families. Not the country club, private school lifers. If they want to change their brand to encourage "wealthy but mediocre" then this is a great move. |
You should not sign the contract if you don’t plan on honoring it. Plain and simple. |
It’s not fair for you to hold a spot and have them turn down girls. They will be sending out admissions offers next year based on how many people currently are planning on staying. If everyone who signed the contract was able to just leave with no penalty for whatever reason they wouldn’t be able to plan and predict how many kids they should admit. That’s not fair. |
It's the psychology of it. You (the parent) are likely starting from a place where you're not sure which high school option is best for your kid. You see the positives and negative in all of them. Then the thought that you have to lose $5K to even have all your options is enough to just make you say "screw it" and walk from option A (NCS) and take your chance with option B (chance at a magnet) or option C (known public which you already know/believe isn't that bad and most if not all of your kid's friends will be using). |
i I mean they will be sending out the offers in a few weeks and they won’t be able to determine how many girls The can admit until they know how many are returning that makes sense to me. |
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I am sure this is all tied into the college picture.
Outcomes are looking quite grim at NCS this year and I'm sure are predicted to be even worse for next year's class--many of whom have a high school worth of pretty crummy grades. So NCS can stem the tide of impulsive movement by locking people in. Hopefully they are also remediating the grading but this can't be done overnight. |
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It feels like just one poster who is dropping all of the “don’t sign a contract if you’re not going to honor it” crap. That logic is faulty in a system where schools have all of the power to set and move deadlines and try to jump ahead of other schools, forcing families to make early decisions and be stuck with them when they don’t yet know all of their options.
From my perspective, this makes it look like NCS was losing good candidates to other schools over the spring and is trying to use the money to force people to stay rather than just give them more to want to stay for. It seems pathetic. |
Why not? TJ is our backup and NCS is our top choice. |
I suspect the college picture is looking great NCS. Could they require a minor increase in cash on hand to cover unexpected operating expenses? They seem confident that people will pay ; that’s a nice position to be in! |