Why do you send your son/daughter play soccer?

[Anonymous]

I wonder too, especially for girls since it has a very high rate of concussions and serious knee injuries. If my kids loved it I guess I would go along but I wouldn’t encourage a sport with such a high risk of long term injuries. Same goes with competitive gymnastics.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder too, especially for girls since it has a very high rate of concussions and serious knee injuries. If my kids loved it I guess I would go along but I wouldn’t encourage a sport with such a high risk of long term injuries. Same goes with competitive gymnastics.

Too late for us. My DD recently tore her ACL during a game. Maybe I can persuade her to play piano instead. 😂

[Anonymous]

1. Builds confidence
2. Lots of health benefits
3. We really wanted her to have the experience of sticking with something and seeing herself improve
4. We enjoy watching games
5. She really enjoys it

[Anonymous]

Because I love soccer so much but never made my dream of playing in World Cup so I send my DC to train soccer every day so they can achieve our hopes and dreams.

[Anonymous]

We do it because we hate sucking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's been a great experience, but I wouldnt do it if dc wasnt the best on the top team in the best league, with D1 power 5 scholarships being projected. DC loves it and why wouldnt they, being the best at something feels good and helps build confidence. I agree with the OP though, if Dc wasnt the best on team, we always think why do these other parents do it. Some are mid level players spending all their time and money and for what; a low level d1 school, or d3 or even Ivy (could you not get in on academics alone?) and also having to pay for tuition , LOL!

For the parents, it's a great feeling as well! Everyone knows your dc is the star, so with it comes lots of benefits. We get preferential treatment from the club and coaches; teachers, school, etc. Not quite like a football star, which I was from the south, but you get it.

Great topic, looking forward to reading the replies!

Goodness, may I have the fortitude to walk away from you if our players ever meet on the field. I loath parents like you.

It’s about supporting your kid. And that’s it - they go as far as their talents (and as the years progress hard efforts) take them. It’s not for you to really take credit/bask in their glory. Full stop.

I do think being introduced to humans in teams - and how they operate benefits any working life (and you certainly don’t need to be the top player on the top team in the DMV). Your kid is likely going to be working for one of those ‘lower level’ players when he hangs up his boots at the end of his illustrious D1 career anyways.

[Anonymous]

I have one kid who didn't play soccer and one kid who does. The kid who didn't play is now in college and starting to play with friends; I wish I'd pushed him a bit when he was younger. The other one is in HS and plays on an MSI Classics team - 2 long practices + one game during the fall and spring season. It's great exercise, the coach is the best (high expectations around effort - not outcomes - and not psycho), and a nice group of kids.

I think too many parents overrate sports for college admissions purposes; it's way too much time invested for too little benefit either in terms of recruitment or scholarships.

[Anonymous]

My children choose to play soccer because they think it's fun. I support this choice because it keeps them active and it's a great opportunity to learn about teamwork.

I suggest 99% of people will tell you this exact same thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's been a great experience, but I wouldnt do it if dc wasnt the best on the top team in the best league, with D1 power 5 scholarships being projected. DC loves it and why wouldnt they, being the best at something feels good and helps build confidence. I agree with the OP though, if Dc wasnt the best on team, we always think why do these other parents do it. Some are mid level players spending all their time and money and for what; a low level d1 school, or d3 or even Ivy (could you not get in on academics alone?) and also having to pay for tuition , LOL!

For the parents, it's a great feeling as well! Everyone knows your dc is the star, so with it comes lots of benefits. We get preferential treatment from the club and coaches; teachers, school, etc. Not quite like a football star, which I was from the south, but you get it.

Great topic, looking forward to reading the replies!

Goodness, may I have the fortitude to walk away from you if our players ever meet on the field. I loath parents like you.

It’s about supporting your kid. And that’s it - they go as far as their talents (and as the years progress hard efforts) take them. It’s not for you to really take credit/bask in their glory. Full stop.

I do think being introduced to humans in teams - and how they operate benefits any working life (and you certainly don’t need to be the top player on the top team in the DMV). Your kid is likely going to be working for one of those ‘lower level’ players when he hangs up his boots at the end of his illustrious D1 career anyways.

The previous PP was arrogant but u don’t have to take a dig at his kid to make your point. You’re worse than he is, so judgmental and wishing the worse on those who don’t hold your holier than thou views.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's been a great experience, but I wouldnt do it if dc wasnt the best on the top team in the best league, with D1 power 5 scholarships being projected. DC loves it and why wouldnt they, being the best at something feels good and helps build confidence. I agree with the OP though, if Dc wasnt the best on team, we always think why do these other parents do it. Some are mid level players spending all their time and money and for what; a low level d1 school, or d3 or even Ivy (could you not get in on academics alone?) and also having to pay for tuition , LOL!

For the parents, it's a great feeling as well! Everyone knows your dc is the star, so with it comes lots of benefits. We get preferential treatment from the club and coaches; teachers, school, etc. Not quite like a football star, which I was from the south, but you get it.

Great topic, looking forward to reading the replies!

Goodness, may I have the fortitude to walk away from you if our players ever meet on the field. I loath parents like you.

It’s about supporting your kid. And that’s it - they go as far as their talents (and as the years progress hard efforts) take them. It’s not for you to really take credit/bask in their glory. Full stop.

I do think being introduced to humans in teams - and how they operate benefits any working life (and you certainly don’t need to be the top player on the top team in the DMV). Your kid is likely going to be working for one of those ‘lower level’ players when he hangs up his boots at the end of his illustrious D1 career anyways.

The previous PP was arrogant but u don’t have to take a dig at his kid to make your point. You’re worse than he is, so judgmental and wishing the worse on those who don’t hold your holier than thou views.

PP is a douche. Blowback is to be expected.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's been a great experience, but I wouldnt do it if dc wasnt the best on the top team in the best league, with D1 power 5 scholarships being projected. DC loves it and why wouldnt they, being the best at something feels good and helps build confidence. I agree with the OP though, if Dc wasnt the best on team, we always think why do these other parents do it. Some are mid level players spending all their time and money and for what; a low level d1 school, or d3 or even Ivy (could you not get in on academics alone?) and also having to pay for tuition , LOL!

For the parents, it's a great feeling as well! Everyone knows your dc is the star, so with it comes lots of benefits. We get preferential treatment from the club and coaches; teachers, school, etc. Not quite like a football star, which I was from the south, but you get it.

Great topic, looking forward to reading the replies!

Goodness, may I have the fortitude to walk away from you if our players ever meet on the field. I loath parents like you.

It’s about supporting your kid. And that’s it - they go as far as their talents (and as the years progress hard efforts) take them. It’s not for you to really take credit/bask in their glory. Full stop.

I do think being introduced to humans in teams - and how they operate benefits any working life (and you certainly don’t need to be the top player on the top team in the DMV). Your kid is likely going to be working for one of those ‘lower level’ players when he hangs up his boots at the end of his illustrious D1 career anyways.

The previous PP was arrogant but u don’t have to take a dig at his kid to make your point. You’re worse than he is, so judgmental and wishing the worse on those who don’t hold your holier than thou views.

PP is a douche. Blowback is to be expected.

Dp
I am 99.99% sure that was parody

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's been a great experience, but I wouldnt do it if dc wasnt the best on the top team in the best league, with D1 power 5 scholarships being projected. DC loves it and why wouldnt they, being the best at something feels good and helps build confidence. I agree with the OP though, if Dc wasnt the best on team, we always think why do these other parents do it. Some are mid level players spending all their time and money and for what; a low level d1 school, or d3 or even Ivy (could you not get in on academics alone?) and also having to pay for tuition , LOL!

For the parents, it's a great feeling as well! Everyone knows your dc is the star, so with it comes lots of benefits. We get preferential treatment from the club and coaches; teachers, school, etc. Not quite like a football star, which I was from the south, but you get it.

Great topic, looking forward to reading the replies!

Goodness, may I have the fortitude to walk away from you if our players ever meet on the field. I loath parents like you.

It’s about supporting your kid. And that’s it - they go as far as their talents (and as the years progress hard efforts) take them. It’s not for you to really take credit/bask in their glory. Full stop.

I do think being introduced to humans in teams - and how they operate benefits any working life (and you certainly don’t need to be the top player on the top team in the DMV). Your kid is likely going to be working for one of those ‘lower level’ players when he hangs up his boots at the end of his illustrious D1 career anyways.

I actually agree with the PP. At least the first paragraph. If your kid isn’t interested/qualified to play in college, why spend all the time and money with ECNL or GA? Every ECNL club should be telling their players this, but they don’t because they need the numbers and the money. There are way too many ECNL clubs in this area and talent is diluted. This isn’t about the kids and doesn’t help US soccer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's been a great experience, but I wouldnt do it if dc wasnt the best on the top team in the best league, with D1 power 5 scholarships being projected. DC loves it and why wouldnt they, being the best at something feels good and helps build confidence. I agree with the OP though, if Dc wasnt the best on team, we always think why do these other parents do it. Some are mid level players spending all their time and money and for what; a low level d1 school, or d3 or even Ivy (could you not get in on academics alone?) and also having to pay for tuition , LOL!

For the parents, it's a great feeling as well! Everyone knows your dc is the star, so with it comes lots of benefits. We get preferential treatment from the club and coaches; teachers, school, etc. Not quite like a football star, which I was from the south, but you get it.

Great topic, looking forward to reading the replies!

Goodness, may I have the fortitude to walk away from you if our players ever meet on the field. I loath parents like you.

It’s about supporting your kid. And that’s it - they go as far as their talents (and as the years progress hard efforts) take them. It’s not for you to really take credit/bask in their glory. Full stop.

I do think being introduced to humans in teams - and how they operate benefits any working life (and you certainly don’t need to be the top player on the top team in the DMV). Your kid is likely going to be working for one of those ‘lower level’ players when he hangs up his boots at the end of his illustrious D1 career anyways.

The previous PP was arrogant but u don’t have to take a dig at his kid to make your point. You’re worse than he is, so judgmental and wishing the worse on those who don’t hold your holier than thou views.

PP is a douche. Blowback is to be expected.

Dp
I am 99.99% sure that was parody

Exaggerated a bit, but main points spot on

[Anonymous]

It's the most popular sport on the planet, so it wasn't a stretch to get the kids involved.
They and their friends love it and they're good at it.

All the other psychobabble is a bit over the top for something so simple.