City versus country living.

Anonymous

I think that, for Americans, the best place to be is the suburbs.

We don't have great cities in the US, like they have in Europe. But we do have great suburbs -- educated people, good amenities, privacy, and safety.

If I could live in Europe, I would live in a city.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
I think that, for Americans, the best place to be is the suburbs.

We don't have great cities in the US, like they have in Europe. But we do have great suburbs -- educated people, good amenities, privacy, and safety.

If I could live in Europe, I would live in a city.


Suburbs are good for families, too isolating for young adults and empty nesters and widowed/divorced.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I've lived in city, suburb and country, though at different times of my life.

It really depends on you and your interests. I'm an extrovert and have diverse interests and hobbies. If there's something specific that brings you joy, make sure it's near you.

Cities - diversity, culture, food, intellectualism, arts, transportation options, traffic, noise, transient, friction, concrete, public parks, individual expression, competition

Suburbs - safe, clean, car culture, conformity, families, private ownership, smaller minded, keeping up with the Joneses, competition

Country - relationships, families, car culture, nature, farming, limited options, self-reliance, smaller minded, less educated, community

Whoever said breweries - these are everywhere so don't worry about that!

In all these places, there are pros and cons. As an adult I could live most places. As a mom with young kids, my favorite place to live so far was the downtown main street of an exurb. But now I live in a rural area and love different aspects of it. I don't want to live in the city as a mom, but I have done it as a young mom.

I'm in my 40s now and the schools where we live are not very good compared to the suburban area we used to live. But the natural resources are world-class and with educated parents providing wider opportunities I think my kids will be ok. I like a slower pace of life and also the sense of community. I feel the need to give back and do.


Do you mind if I ask where you are now? (County/State?) We're thinking of making the switch from an urban area to either a rural or suburban area in the DMV. We also have young kids, so would love to hear what area you found that is working for your family.

I am not the PP you are responding to, but Fauquier County, VA sounds a lot like what the PP was describing. You can go more rural or more suburban all within the same county.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Depends on what you mean by “country”. We live in Delaplane near Upperville on about 40 acres. Moved permanently from DC after initially planning to have 2 houses.

The distances is the biggest downside. And the rather insular cliquey social circles. You pretty much have to ride horses, have kids, and go to church to know many people.

We have any amenity we need close by. High household incomes support nice shops, nice wineries and restaurants. There’s a lot to do, especially in the spring-fall. But you have to be willing to drive a lot.

I wouldn’t want to live somewhere more rural. For example, the Shenandoah valley or western PA.


Hi, neighbor! I live very close to Delaplane. Good description.
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