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1. Your are being extremely hyperbolic. 2. It's not "curriculum" that leads to advantage, it's "far more hours of study". |
The only thing more ridiculous than OP doing this for herself would be if it were her 8th grade kid doing this after OP poisoning the poor kid's mind. |
| Going to Sidwell is far more valuable than a T10 college. |
How so? |
You are correct that this student will do fine and get into a school. But they are not alarmist - they are sharing the truth - parents thinking their unhooked kid is getting into a Ivy T10 (or even T20) need to understand the reality. And, having gone through it - it's often not apparent unless you are in the specific class which of the kids have hooks. Some are not apparent at all. The message is that you should not enter these schools with Ivy as goal - it should be that you want your child to go to that HS (and then take the warts that go with them....no school is perfect - and certainly none of the Big 3 are). |
She’s being alarmist because an Ivy/T10 admit isn’t guaranteed anywhere. People on this thread have posted that unhooked students have a “better” chance of getting into an Ivy+ from public school, without a shred of evidence. Where’s the proof? Your anecdotes and 3rd hand information aren’t facts. You would have to know details about each candidate that you simply don’t have access to as a casual observer. What we know for sure (FACTS) is that schools like Sidwell consistently send a higher percentage of students to Ivy+ schools than any W school. And all of the Sidwell admits aren’t hooked. You also fail to acknowledge that many W admits to Ivy+ colleges are hooked. Once again, calm down. |
She’s just being a typical Big X parent lamenting their lot. “grim” (twice!) “sobering” Please. |
Well - good luck to those of you hanging onto the fantasy. She's right. Don't attend for better college placement (if you are not hooked). Attend because you like the school and the curriculum. |
Ok, Chicken Little. Just because your unhooked child, and “their unhooked friends” were unlucky in their pursuit of Ivy+/Tier whatever schools, doesn’t mean that other unhooked private school students will meet the same fate. Your concern trolling is tiresome. |
Why are you stuck on an Ivy or Top 10 when you have no idea what his major will be? |
Connections. How the world works. |
Calc 1 at Sidwell is more advanced than AB Calc. It has BC Calc material in it, but the kids get no credit for this on their transcripts, which is vintage Sidwell. |
| You all worry too much and focus on the wrong things. Love your kids for who they are. It will work out. |
+1. Yes, classic Sidwell. Based on personal experience (one Sidwell grad. and one current US student), Sidwell will work students to death in a given class—but without any formal/transcript acknowledgement. Some teachers will put things on tests that have never been covered in class…because they’re testing “conceptual knowledge and application.” Ugh! |
So, connections made at Sidwell are stronger/more meaningful than the connections made at a T10 college? That’s surprising. Please explain. |