I totally agree and had a similar experience, minus the pelvic floor damage and second c section -- by some miracle, despite my forceps delivery and 3rd degree tear with baby #1, I am relatively unscathed (physically, emotionally is a different story). But yes. Don't drink the koolaid, of any sort |
It probably didn’t work at 38 weeks because you weren’t ready to give birth. You need to be at least 1 cm dilated, so you must have been a little dilated but probably just not ready. I had the sweep with my second at 39+4 and I went into labor 24 hours later. With my first I had an induction that was very long but I only pushed twice at the end and that was amazing! Easiest birth was my third: I was induced at 39+2 and after 12 hours of max pitocin they broke my water and baby was born five hours later - easy, amazing birth. But for me experience made every birth easier and that’s been the same with parenting. |
Gosh I pray I have your confidence. I’m pregnant with my 3rd and feeling somehow more scared now that I really know what to expect and that element of ignorance & surprise is totally gone - despite 2 really good deliveries. I guess I doubt it can be good a 3rd time too - I mean what are the chances?! |
| OP here. The induction went well. I opted for the foley balloon which got me from 1-4cm in a few hours with minor not too painful contractions. I was able to do wireless monitoring which was great. Then I got pitocin and the level was slightly increased every 30m-1hr. I didn’t really feel the contractions I was having until a higher dosage at which time my water broke and it was very painful (docs said I was in active labor then) so I got the epidural. After it finally kicked in, I was feeling better. It took just a few hours to go from 4-10cm, then an hour or so of laboring down for baby to move to the lowest station. I was pushing for 15 min and then baby was born, 8lbs 15oz! Second degree tears but stitched up. It was less than 24 hours total from arrival at the hospital to delivery and the epidural was a must at the end but overall I’m very happy with the experience and think I may have avoided a C-section given baby’s size. |
That depends on how accurately you know the gestational age. If you’re going just based on the date of your last period (rather than ovulation tracking or an early dating ultrasound) the due date can be WAY off. My initial OB assigned due date for my first was almost a full month earlier than his actual due date, because I have extremely long cycles. Doctor didn’t care to see my chart showing ovulation around day 42 (vs the assumed day 14) so I insisted on a dating ultrasound. |
| Congrats, OP! Glad it all worked out. |
+1 to membrane sweep. I was induced with my first (and third) and if you are effaced (sounds like that’s starting to happen) and dilated it will be easier. Fwiw I was not either and I had HELLP syndrome and I ended up having a vaginal birth with a first degree tare with my first - and I only pushed twice. It sounds like there is a good chance you will go into labor beforehand though. I had a membrane sweep with my second and went into labor before my induction date. My recommendation would be to try to schedule it as close to 39+1 as possible so your body has a few days to go into labor naturally. I went into labor about 24-30 hours after my membrane sweep, but I think it can sometimes take 48 hours to kick off the process. |
| OP again. I did the membrane sweep at 39 weeks exactly hoping to go into labor naturally after that, and before my induction at 39+4, but it didn’t happen. Regardless, I think the sweep was worth a shot. It didn’t hurt, just was slightly uncomfortable. But I also didn’t mind the cervical checks either from a pain standpoint. |
Thank you!! 😊 |
NP. For anyone else planning an induction, make sure you get the epidural prior to membrane rupture if you can. Pitocin contractions prior to water breaking are intense but not nearly as excruciating as they get after your water breaks. Speaking from personal experience and two inductions, the first of which was due to PROM. My experience with being on pitocin for those two labors was like night and day. |
100% on the membrane sweep, very effective, and even during labor if things slow down, get the doc or an experience nurse to do it! |