4th child-3 girls and was hoping for a boy…

Anonymous
I have 2 boys and in an ideal world I would have liked to have a daughter. But having all the same gender has a lot of advantages too - sharing clothes, toys, rooms; more chance of common interests and a strong sibling bond. As parents you are better prepared for the challenges. Think about all the positives!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Found out today it’s another girl. The tech said 3 weeks ago she was confident it was a boy now today when we went for actual gender confirmation appt we are told it’s a girl. I have gender disappointment as with 3 girls, I was hoping for a boy. What are chances they are wrong and it’s a boy?


A child is not a disappointing Christmas gift. You need to grow up and pray that your new daughter is healthy!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Found out today it’s another girl. The tech said 3 weeks ago she was confident it was a boy now today when we went for actual gender confirmation appt we are told it’s a girl. I have gender disappointment as with 3 girls, I was hoping for a boy. What are chances they are wrong and it’s a boy?

probably near zero.

Have you thought about having a fifth after this one?

If so, use IVF and you can choose the gender.
Anonymous
Keep trying!!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand how people could have 4 kids under 5. No breastfeeding, no working, perhaps you can find something else to do after you are having babies.


I actually like having babies and toddlers. I like kids of all ages. We have a fun house. You do you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Keep trying!!!

This. And consider IVF. The tech is there to select the gender.
Anonymous
I get it. Im pregnant with fraternal twin girls and had gender disappointment as well. My oldest is a boy and we already have irish to twin girls. My husband and son's reaction didn't help much either, but I got over it quicker than I thought.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I have 4 sisters and 3 brothers. The brother and twin brothers came last. The 5 girls were first


Is this meant to be inspiration to OP?
Anonymous
Surely you knew there was a chance of this happening?
Anonymous
Have you met boys who are the youngest with many older sisters? You may have dodged a bullet.
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