This is what happened to my kid too. We were very lucky to get an Algebra teacher who took a lot of time going over every math problem on each test and my kid got dinged a lot and dinging for every small issue that was sloppy. We got him a tutor and he figured it out. At first there was this attitude of being annoyed the teacher was doing it, which we quickly dispelled and moved on from. The teacher did him a favor. |
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Teacher here. You have to make them write out every problem. If they get a problem wrong, they go over it and find the mistake. The bright kids catch on quickly that they need to be more careful, because they are used to get all As.
If you can’t do it, get a tutor if you can. If the kid won’t cooperate with you, then you have consequences. Immediate consequences. They can go right ahead and try to not cooperate, and you take the phone or whatever. When they realize you are not kidding, they will knock it off. I made my students redo every missed problem on tests and quizzes. Ask the teacher if you can have the test or quiz back to go over with and correct. If the teacher has after school hours, you make sure the kid goes there. |
This is us. We got a tutor once kid started HS. At first it was to fill in gaps as it was Covid and we were worried about missing material. Then we kept the tutor, not b/c kid was having problems, but it was the fine-tuning.Teaching to check work and why important. And frankly, the classes at the HS are just too big. Too many kids and not enough one:one to explain things the way each kid needs. The tutor does this, gives tips/tricks, and reinforces the lessons. AND then kid has someone else to be accountable to, instead of me. I'd rather not pay the additional money and have the schools do what we expect them to do but, given the sizes of the classes and various capabilities of the teachers (though in our case, our teachers have been pretty good across the board), I just realized it's simply not possible to get my kid the math foundation needed w/o some extra help and instruction. They don't meet every week and sometimes it was only a few times a quarter. Right now it's every week b/c we are at a higher AP level class and it's hard. Really hard. And there is zero possibility I can understand the math. I tapped out long ago. My DH may be a bit better than me but my DH and DC working together on something like this is . . . . not possible. Nor desired. By any of us.
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| Honestly this is a problem for all of them. It doesn't matter if they are in accelerated math or not. The more problems they work on and get marked off on, the fewer mistakes they make. Eventually they learn to anticipate certain mistakes and stop making them. |
+1 DS also in accelerated math and made careless sloppy mistakes through middle school. In HS he started caring and checking his work because grades are important to him now. |
It’s surprising since this is an easy way to gain points on your tests and grades. If they think showing their work in algebra is tedious they will really be upset with the tedious time consuming tasks are waiting for them in high school. My 6th grader’s math teacher said it doesn’t matter how they got there but she wants to see it. I was surprised. I thought it was rigid when first learning but you could go your own way in more advanced classes. |
| Ask them to solve the problem using a different method |
Have your child correct ALL work with careless errors - but during a time that would have been reserved for a preferred activity. A few times of this natural consequence of missing out on fun to fix silly mistakes will usually push them to “decide” to check it the first go ‘round. |
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Getting wrong answers is a natural consequence of not checking math — eventually they will get it!
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This is the only thing that works. Give it time. |