Nova soccer coach attacked by parent

[Anonymous]

He has a lengthy VIOLENT record, several malicious woundings and assaults. He has served time in the penitentiary.

Go to the online Virginia judicial record system, go to circuit court and look up under this name Blerand Hoxha and just read. Unreal.

https://www.vacourts.gov/courts/home.html

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My kid didn't start the scrimmage so I beat his ass with a water bottle. He had it coming anyways. My boy is a striker and he had him playing left back that good for nothing coach. You's kids is a bunch of losers. I'm taking my boy to another club. Eff all of ya's.

I know this is intended to mock the Dad, but we really don’t know what led into this. If you read what so-called “Coach Vince” said to the Dad about his kid, it comes off as really dismissive. What was going on with the kid? Did some club favorite spike the kid, and Coach Vince blew it off?

Hold off on judgment until all the facts come out.

GTFOH.... The only article available in this says that the coach said "are you ready to go back in?" There's nothing dismissive about that. AND EVEN IF THERE WAS it doesn't justify a response of physical assault.

If this is a PW team, there's nothing surprising here. We've played a couple of their teams (both rec and travel) and the parents were nasty....even to their own children on the field (some of the players were telling their parents to shut up...it was kind of sad actually). There seems to be no attempt by the club or the league to stop the behavior. It's a shame it came to this.

It is a Prince William county team…

When my kid played a PW team we went to group of fields that had each individual field surrounded by very tall chain link fences. Only players and coaches could enter the fenced in area, all spectators had to watch outside the fence. Was like being in jail. In all the years of my kid playing soccer and all the teams we have traveled to from NC to NY (including PA and NJ where parents are nuts) I have NEVER seen anything like it since.

I hope the coach recovers. BTW he was a volunteer subbing for a friend. He didn't know these kids nor this parent.

The fence is the least of it. My daughter had a game there years ago, and there was a PW dad who shouted at his kid the entire match. And after the team lost, he continued to berate her on the way to the car. It was awful to watch and I regret not trying to interrupt him somehow. The girls were all of 9 or 10.

That said, this week’s psycho parent was NVSC, not PWSI.

[Anonymous]

I am a referee and NVSC is definitely one of the clubs I avoid refereeing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My kid didn't start the scrimmage so I beat his ass with a water bottle. He had it coming anyways. My boy is a striker and he had him playing left back that good for nothing coach. You's kids is a bunch of losers. I'm taking my boy to another club. Eff all of ya's.

I know this is intended to mock the Dad, but we really don’t know what led into this. If you read what so-called “Coach Vince” said to the Dad about his kid, it comes off as really dismissive. What was going on with the kid? Did some club favorite spike the kid, and Coach Vince blew it off?

Hold off on judgment until all the facts come out.

GTFOH.... The only article available in this says that the coach said "are you ready to go back in?" There's nothing dismissive about that. AND EVEN IF THERE WAS it doesn't justify a response of physical assault.

If this is a PW team, there's nothing surprising here. We've played a couple of their teams (both rec and travel) and the parents were nasty....even to their own children on the field (some of the players were telling their parents to shut up...it was kind of sad actually). There seems to be no attempt by the club or the league to stop the behavior. It's a shame it came to this.

It is a Prince William county team…

When my kid played a PW team we went to group of fields that had each individual field surrounded by very tall chain link fences. Only players and coaches could enter the fenced in area, all spectators had to watch outside the fence. Was like being in jail. In all the years of my kid playing soccer and all the teams we have traveled to from NC to NY (including PA and NJ where parents are nuts) I have NEVER seen anything like it since.

I hope the coach recovers. BTW he was a volunteer subbing for a friend. He didn't know these kids nor this parent.

Tall chain link fences? Where is that?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My kid didn't start the scrimmage so I beat his ass with a water bottle. He had it coming anyways. My boy is a striker and he had him playing left back that good for nothing coach. You's kids is a bunch of losers. I'm taking my boy to another club. Eff all of ya's.

I know this is intended to mock the Dad, but we really don’t know what led into this. If you read what so-called “Coach Vince” said to the Dad about his kid, it comes off as really dismissive. What was going on with the kid? Did some club favorite spike the kid, and Coach Vince blew it off?

Hold off on judgment until all the facts come out.

GTFOH.... The only article available in this says that the coach said "are you ready to go back in?" There's nothing dismissive about that. AND EVEN IF THERE WAS it doesn't justify a response of physical assault.

If this is a PW team, there's nothing surprising here. We've played a couple of their teams (both rec and travel) and the parents were nasty....even to their own children on the field (some of the players were telling their parents to shut up...it was kind of sad actually). There seems to be no attempt by the club or the league to stop the behavior. It's a shame it came to this.

It is a Prince William county team…

When my kid played a PW team we went to group of fields that had each individual field surrounded by very tall chain link fences. Only players and coaches could enter the fenced in area, all spectators had to watch outside the fence. Was like being in jail. In all the years of my kid playing soccer and all the teams we have traveled to from NC to NY (including PA and NJ where parents are nuts) I have NEVER seen anything like it since.

I hope the coach recovers. BTW he was a volunteer subbing for a friend. He didn't know these kids nor this parent.

The fence is the least of it. My daughter had a game there years ago, and there was a PW dad who shouted at his kid the entire match. And after the team lost, he continued to berate her on the way to the car. It was awful to watch and I regret not trying to interrupt him somehow. The girls were all of 9 or 10.

That said, this week’s psycho parent was NVSC, not PWSI.

Well if she did not play defense, sometimes a parent has to yell at a little girl for her own good right??!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:My kid didn't start the scrimmage so I beat his ass with a water bottle. He had it coming anyways. My boy is a striker and he had him playing left back that good for nothing coach. You's kids is a bunch of losers. I'm taking my boy to another club. Eff all of ya's.

I know this is intended to mock the Dad, but we really don’t know what led into this. If you read what so-called “Coach Vince” said to the Dad about his kid, it comes off as really dismissive. What was going on with the kid? Did some club favorite spike the kid, and Coach Vince blew it off?

Hold off on judgment until all the facts come out.

GTFOH.... The only article available in this says that the coach said "are you ready to go back in?" There's nothing dismissive about that. AND EVEN IF THERE WAS it doesn't justify a response of physical assault.

If this is a PW team, there's nothing surprising here. We've played a couple of their teams (both rec and travel) and the parents were nasty....even to their own children on the field (some of the players were telling their parents to shut up...it was kind of sad actually). There seems to be no attempt by the club or the league to stop the behavior. It's a shame it came to this.

It is a Prince William county team…

When my kid played a PW team we went to group of fields that had each individual field surrounded by very tall chain link fences. Only players and coaches could enter the fenced in area, all spectators had to watch outside the fence. Was like being in jail. In all the years of my kid playing soccer and all the teams we have traveled to from NC to NY (including PA and NJ where parents are nuts) I have NEVER seen anything like it since.

I hope the coach recovers. BTW he was a volunteer subbing for a friend. He didn't know these kids nor this parent.

The fence is the least of it. My daughter had a game there years ago, and there was a PW dad who shouted at his kid the entire match. And after the team lost, he continued to berate her on the way to the car. It was awful to watch and I regret not trying to interrupt him somehow. The girls were all of 9 or 10.

That said, this week’s psycho parent was NVSC, not PWSI.

Well if she did not play defense, sometimes a parent has to yell at a little girl for her own good right??!!

Lol, funny, only not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a referee and NVSC is definitely one of the clubs I avoid refereeing.

There are psychos everywhere. I think the worst of it is the top teams ECNL clubs, but at the U Little ages. Those parents seem to have so much invested in their kids and so little idea of what is appropriate or how things work

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My kid didn't start the scrimmage so I beat his ass with a water bottle. He had it coming anyways. My boy is a striker and he had him playing left back that good for nothing coach. You's kids is a bunch of losers. I'm taking my boy to another club. Eff all of ya's.

I know this is intended to mock the Dad, but we really don’t know what led into this. If you read what so-called “Coach Vince” said to the Dad about his kid, it comes off as really dismissive. What was going on with the kid? Did some club favorite spike the kid, and Coach Vince blew it off?

Hold off on judgment until all the facts come out.

GTFOH.... The only article available in this says that the coach said "are you ready to go back in?" There's nothing dismissive about that. AND EVEN IF THERE WAS it doesn't justify a response of physical assault.

If this is a PW team, there's nothing surprising here. We've played a couple of their teams (both rec and travel) and the parents were nasty....even to their own children on the field (some of the players were telling their parents to shut up...it was kind of sad actually). There seems to be no attempt by the club or the league to stop the behavior. It's a shame it came to this.

It is a Prince William county team…

When my kid played a PW team we went to group of fields that had each individual field surrounded by very tall chain link fences. Only players and coaches could enter the fenced in area, all spectators had to watch outside the fence. Was like being in jail. In all the years of my kid playing soccer and all the teams we have traveled to from NC to NY (including PA and NJ where parents are nuts) I have NEVER seen anything like it since.

I hope the coach recovers. BTW he was a volunteer subbing for a friend. He didn't know these kids nor this parent.

A3 doesn't let parents inside the fence at Bell Branch either. Bizarro

[Anonymous]

We are at a new club and the parents seems ok right now. A few parents talk a lot to their own kids but otherwise, cheer the rest of the team. They’re not very loud though so I don’t think the kids are going to hear anyway.

Apart from cheering when there are goals. We just mutter to ourselves. Our kids told us years ago not to say anything on the sidelines and also not to cheer too loudly either. We also don’t talk about the game on the car ride unless our kids wanted to, which is not often.

[Anonymous]

Our club has seen an influx of PW parents in the last few years, they are truly on another level. That being said, this guy is a psycho and should be locked up for a long time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We are at a new club and the parents seems ok right now. A few parents talk a lot to their own kids but otherwise, cheer the rest of the team. They’re not very loud though so I don’t think the kids are going to hear anyway.

Apart from cheering when there are goals. We just mutter to ourselves. Our kids told us years ago not to say anything on the sidelines and also not to cheer too loudly either. We also don’t talk about the game on the car ride unless our kids wanted to, which is not often.

Cool story bro.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He has a lengthy VIOLENT record, several malicious woundings and assaults. He has served time in the penitentiary.

Go to the online Virginia judicial record system, go to circuit court and look up under this name Blerand Hoxha and just read. Unreal.

https://www.vacourts.gov/courts/home.html

His poor kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He has a lengthy VIOLENT record, several malicious woundings and assaults. He has served time in the penitentiary.

Go to the online Virginia judicial record system, go to circuit court and look up under this name Blerand Hoxha and just read. Unreal.

https://www.vacourts.gov/courts/home.html

His poor kid.

Indeed - hopefully the apple doesn't fall close to that tree as is often the case...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:My kid didn't start the scrimmage so I beat his ass with a water bottle. He had it coming anyways. My boy is a striker and he had him playing left back that good for nothing coach. You's kids is a bunch of losers. I'm taking my boy to another club. Eff all of ya's.

I know this is intended to mock the Dad, but we really don’t know what led into this. If you read what so-called “Coach Vince” said to the Dad about his kid, it comes off as really dismissive. What was going on with the kid? Did some club favorite spike the kid, and Coach Vince blew it off?

Hold off on judgment until all the facts come out.

GTFOH.... The only article available in this says that the coach said "are you ready to go back in?" There's nothing dismissive about that. AND EVEN IF THERE WAS it doesn't justify a response of physical assault.

If this is a PW team, there's nothing surprising here. We've played a couple of their teams (both rec and travel) and the parents were nasty....even to their own children on the field (some of the players were telling their parents to shut up...it was kind of sad actually). There seems to be no attempt by the club or the league to stop the behavior. It's a shame it came to this.

It is a Prince William county team…

When my kid played a PW team we went to group of fields that had each individual field surrounded by very tall chain link fences. Only players and coaches could enter the fenced in area, all spectators had to watch outside the fence. Was like being in jail. In all the years of my kid playing soccer and all the teams we have traveled to from NC to NY (including PA and NJ where parents are nuts) I have NEVER seen anything like it since.

I hope the coach recovers. BTW he was a volunteer subbing for a friend. He didn't know these kids nor this parent.

I can’t even think of a facility like you’re describing in PWC. And when I hear tall chain fences my immediate thought are some FFX fields like sully highlands.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My kid didn't start the scrimmage so I beat his ass with a water bottle. He had it coming anyways. My boy is a striker and he had him playing left back that good for nothing coach. You's kids is a bunch of losers. I'm taking my boy to another club. Eff all of ya's.

I know this is intended to mock the Dad, but we really don’t know what led into this. If you read what so-called “Coach Vince” said to the Dad about his kid, it comes off as really dismissive. What was going on with the kid? Did some club favorite spike the kid, and Coach Vince blew it off?

Hold off on judgment until all the facts come out.

GTFOH.... The only article available in this says that the coach said "are you ready to go back in?" There's nothing dismissive about that. AND EVEN IF THERE WAS it doesn't justify a response of physical assault.

If this is a PW team, there's nothing surprising here. We've played a couple of their teams (both rec and travel) and the parents were nasty....even to their own children on the field (some of the players were telling their parents to shut up...it was kind of sad actually). There seems to be no attempt by the club or the league to stop the behavior. It's a shame it came to this.

It is a Prince William county team…

When my kid played a PW team we went to group of fields that had each individual field surrounded by very tall chain link fences. Only players and coaches could enter the fenced in area, all spectators had to watch outside the fence. Was like being in jail. In all the years of my kid playing soccer and all the teams we have traveled to from NC to NY (including PA and NJ where parents are nuts) I have NEVER seen anything like it since.

I hope the coach recovers. BTW he was a volunteer subbing for a friend. He didn't know these kids nor this parent.

I can’t even think of a facility like you’re describing in PWC. And when I hear tall chain fences my immediate thought are some FFX fields like sully highlands.

Howison has fences around at least two of the three fields there and parents stay outside the fences. Fences are not tall though.