Yes - they have changed! Families need to understand this. No sour grapes here - but there are a few of us trying to be "real" with the updated experience. |
The vast majority of Sidwell and GDS parents are college graduates. Therefore, their children are “hooked” (legacies) at some college(s). If you or your spouse didn’t graduate from an Ivy+, that’s too bad for your child. They can always use the hook his/her parents provided. But that’s not good enough for you, is it? |
Yes - but until recently Sidwell kids did have a chance to get into Ivy or at least T20 with high gpa (3.85+) and rigor. This was just not the case for '23 (other than ED Chicago and a couple of others). This even pushed down into the T20-T40 for lower GPA. |
There are way more legacies at the W schools than at Sidwell and GDS. |
Sidwell students with 3.85+ GPAs still have a shot at T20 colleges. Is it tougher than it used to be? Yes, but that’s life. The only thing that is inevitable is change. |
Whatever is happening at W schools is not relevant to what we are trying to share to current Sidwell/GDS parents based on recent experiences. OP is asking about GDS/Sidwell. |
Based on sheer numbers, there are also way more students at the W schools than Sidwell and GDS. A higher percentage of Sidwell grads are heading to Ivy+ schools than the W schools I looked at recently. That’s what really matters. |
Nope |
Of course it's relevant, because you're making it sound like Sidwell and GDS have the only legacies in the DC area applying to selective colleges and that it's somehow a magic bullet for admission. There are way more legacies applying to the same schools from public schools. Even with potentially improved odds, most legacies still aren't getting in, whether they're applying from public or private. |
I never said anything of the sort |
+1 The top “ranked” students we know at either school work extremely hard to get all As and don’t do any sports. Just a stem club. You kid really has to choose that. Getting a 3.6 versus a very rare 3.9 is literally hours more per week, with a parent or tutor also teaching and testing you along the way. And as for college goals, it’s a total crapshoot. Not enough seats at any of the ivies for all the amazing students, with top grades, tests, coursework. |
Pls don’t conflate one of the 400,000 Harvard alums with real legacies whose families are wealthy, successful, and has donated millions over the years. Every alums kid cannot get a seat as said parent’s alum. Stop pretending that’s a “leg up.” |
| It’s not like I stalked them so I can’t know this for sure, but I will say this: when I was a Biglaw partner virtually every other partner I knew sent their kids to private, and many, many of them went to the Big 3 and GDS. Virtually none of their kids ended up in Ivies, including kids whose parents are very well known in this town. |
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Having a parent who graduated wherever is NOT a hook at that place. It’s mathematically impossible. None of these colleges have added capacity in decades, only Princeton.
It’s to the benefit of T50 colleges and top state programs. |
There’s also the private school coddle factor plus general lack of grit in many student cohorts these days. |