Should becausr every child is exactly the same and because you said so? Don't worry. The Mann principal does not fear the parents. |
Can you say more about what teacher communication is like there? |
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Do you need aftercare? Stoddert's aftercare was full when my kid wen there.
Both schools are great. Stoddert might be a bit overcrowded. |
So the school that are challenging the kids should stop? So all the schools can just do the bare minimum? Why not have the schools with the most challenging curriculums stay the same, and all the other schools be asked to incorporate the more advanced work for their students? |
The thing is, Mann's test scores are lower than one might expect based on high HHI neighborhood. So many people would find whatever Mann is doing inadequate. And yet Mann parents -- pretty educated people themselves -- are happy with Mann. So why is it a problem?! If people want more focus in tests, there are plenty of options. Is the concern if Mann focuses less on tests in loco parentis concern for those poor Mann children? That would be silly. The idea that Central has prescribed the right curricula and that it should be taught in exactly the same way in every school -- what the poster above said -- is exactly what DCPS believes they can do. They want to teacher-proof the instructional plan. It's arrogant and it's foolish. |
Mann’s PTO budget is like half a million dollars. That’s how the elitist parents can get adjustments to the standard DCPS curriculum. Through galas and teacher classroom wish lists and a dozen other opportunities to donate each year. So unless Council wants to SERIOUSLY increase school funding, it is what it is. Drive across the park if you want Mann’s science lab and musical theater program. |
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Can anyone speak to whether kids develop solid independent problem-solving skills at Mann, Stoddert, or both? Or if they seem to adjust well socially and academically to public middle school?
Currently enrolled at Stoddert for PK4 with a low waitlist number at Mann. I really liked the smaller community, the focus on cultivating a love of learning, and the more student-focused approach at Mann. That said, two of the childcare providers I've spoken with mentioned that the Mann kids they nannied seemed to struggle a bit with Independent problem solving and adjustment to public middle school (small sample size, obviously). I figured it was worth following up here to see what other parents'/caregivers' experiences had been. |
What you are asking about is on you, not the school. |
Parenting certainly plays a big part in helping kids develop problem-solving skills, as well as taking steps to ensure they develop the skills and have the support necessary to tackle middle school. I believe that's obvious enough that no reasonable person would argue otherwise. That said, it seems silly to dismiss the influence of the school environment on these skills. Kids spend half of their waking hours at school. They learn about social and cultural norms, their place in the social hierarchy, their social identity, and what to expect/what's expected of them to accomplish tasks successfully. If kids have their hands held through problem-solving activities at school, they learn that that's normal and that they can succeed without further developing those skills. Even if parents work effectively on those things at home, a poor-fitting school environment is still reinforcing maladaptive habits half of each day. Skills development has to be reinforced across the board, at home and school, bearing in mind that every kid's needs, strengths, and weaknesses differ. I imagine that's part of why so many posters here emphasize the importance of choosing a school that's a good fit for kids' specific needs (and not just academic achievement). So yes, parents are obviously responsible for helping their kids grow into well-adjusted, independent problem solvers. Part of that responsibility is choosing a school that does a good job of reinforcing these skills while maintaining an environment that allows students' needs to be met. In which case, the better question might be: What kind of kid comes out of Mann/Stoddert as a prepared, well-adjusted problem solver? And do these schools differ in the breadth and depth of student needs they can meet? I'd be interested in hearing from recent parents about how/whether these schools worked for their kids, and why the school met or didn't meet their needs. |
The more wealthy parents in a community, the more handholding there will be. Go check out some private schools. |
| Just noting that this thread originated in 2023 So the issues saying "last year" and "in a spiral" are outdated |
| I know lots of Mann kids who went on to Hardy in the last few years and had no trouble adjusting. I’m sure the same is true for Stoddert. Both are great schools, and like all schools both are imperfect. Think about which location will work best for your family. |
| It’s kindergarten. They’re all good. |
Rather no school should fear an unaccountable central office elite. |
Teachers aren’t robots and the curriculum sucks so teachers actually have to be DCPS proof. |