Of course, wealthy people are a thing. However there are more people like OP who throw the baby out with the bath water than no. College debt is not an imaginary concept. |
They would not exist at the levels and sheet quantity they are at right now. |
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Be smart and don’t overspend. Very few students are full pay at 70-80k a years. It’s less than 2% of students with that type of bill to pay. That is a luxury good.
You have 75k, add in 27k for Fed loans (I wouldn’t go above that with high interest private loans). Add in some more for cash flow. Maybe you can swing 40k a year. That means go state school or only look at private schools with generous merit (they exist, there are lots that will get your cost from the 75k list price closer to 40k). |
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OK:
-Kid gets job this summer. 50% of money goes towards books and spending money. -Ask other parent, grandparent, aunts and uncles if they can contribute $ -Otherwise you need to save $4k a month starting right now. |
| You can't afford a 75k/year school. Back to the drawing board. |
Why not 100%? |
| 27k + 75k is enough for 4 years instate. Any 18-22 y/o can make $3k/year at minimum to pitch in on top of that. Done. |
That's exactly what OP should do. But you know OP will hate your answer. She has already decided that she would do whatever it takes for her kid to attend a fancy private college even if it means putting her retirement at risk. |
And that her kid will graduate in 3 years! |
At the T25 schools, most are more than 50% pay the full weight. |
Any 18yo can make 8-10K/year in DCUMland or anywhere else that minimum wage is $12/Hr+ |
At NYU & USC a lot of “full-pay” students are there on significant amounts of Parent Plus Loans. |
I am not buying that. |
Correct but on DCUM parents usually do not expect their children to contribute to college costs at all. |
OP doesn't budget. There is no way she can pay for this. |