Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Mine asked for the same and doesn't need it yet. I got it for her. Big deal.
As for needing, I agree with the point that that's a very blurry area and ideally, everything would totally be driven by tween/teen comfort and who cares what anyone else thinks. The reason I would want my daughter to wear one is there are a lot of creepy ass dudes in this world who will notice your daughter's breast buds. Wish it wasn't so.
No one cares or is noticing a young girl’s breast buds, except their mom. You are overthinking this. I would follow your daughter’s lead on when she wants to start wearing a bra. Mine didn’t start until 12. Prior to that she just didn’t care. No one ever said anything negative to her or gave her unwanted/creepy attention.
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