Anonymous wrote:Had an amazing experience with a doula with my first (complications and would have probably gone with a c otherwise), for my second the doula was different and was good in the sense she gave my husband a break to run home and take our dogs out and see my oldest child during the birth and reminded me to get into different positions to speed things along and did some reiki, and for the third we are not using a doula. With my third, my husband and I are much better advocates and know more of the ins and outs of childbirth. I would always recommend using a doula for your first or if you have had a prior traumatic birth.
Just saw you are pregnant with your third - if you expect a long induction and your husband needs some flexibility with the kids then yes, but with two easy births behind you it doesn’t seem like a must.
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