Formula. Pumping is usually a waste of time and energy that could be better spent in so, so many ways.
My kids are older now and with the wisdom of hindsight, I wish I had never pumped. |
I would gradually drop a pumping session and start the transition to just formula. I exclusively pumped for 9 months, not something I would do again, or ever recommend. |
+1. And ultimately do what is best for you not what some preachy person on here says. - Signed mother who bf one for 6 months and 2 for 12 months (they are all great now - no discernible difference) |
Why don’t you pump as much as you want and supplement with formula?
I exclusively pumped with my first for 14 months. It was a lot but I’m glad I did it. My second breastfed but lost interest around nine months. Exclusively pumping was an entirely different experience- my nipples could not handle it and were constantly bleeding. I felt no guilt giving it up and using formula. Fed is best. |
As someone who exclusively pumped for a while (I had a preemie so really wanted to give him breastmilk) I encourage you to consider at least doing some formula. Also, if you decide to continue pumping and before you spend a lot of time pumping to build up a huge freezer stash, you may want to check if your breast milk has excess lipase. Try thawing the oldest breastmilk in your freezer and see if your baby will still drink it. |
We used both pumped milk and formula. It is not an either/or choice. One can use both, though no one seems to mention this.
In our case, there wasn't a lot of milk to pump so we supplemented with formula as appropriate. |
Pumping is the most time consuming optional of all. If you want to keep a couple pumping sessions sure, but as someone who just pumped twice a day while kid was at daycare the idea of doing that so many time a day makes me shudder.
Fed is best, formula is absolutely fine. |
I’m the PP who said it’s not certain— the salivary feedback one isn’t what I was referring to, it’s the difficulty in parsing mechanical vs. milk benefits. For example everyone talks about how breastfed babies may get fewer ear infections BUT no one compares children who spend as much time bottle feeding (sucking and swallowing which clears the eustracean tubes) with breastfeeding which everyone agrees can take longer. There’s also benefits which may be accruing from the time spent skin to skin with mother which correlates to many of the posited emotional outcomes. Since it’s not clear those benefits happen from pumping and bottle I definitely wouldn’t invest the time. |