Nope. Winter sport. Several seniors on the team. All want to be captains. Coach has not made a decision yet. Girl asked the coach if she could list on her app she was captain. He said no. She did it anyhow. (not a very ethical kid in general. also cheated on an AP project according to my DD.) |
| This came up in our house while DC was working on apps. Captains for winter sports and not been announced yet. Thought DC had a good shot at it (as did DC) but as DC said- things can happen. So DC did not put on app. Then a few days after submitting was selected captain. Told DC that it's something to be added to a letter of interest to get off waitlist. |
You seem to LOL a lot. Is that nervous laughter to cover your shame? Why proud of helping a kid cheat by lying? I don't get this. |
Actually, I would suggest emailing the AOC with the update now. This is a great opportunity to connect and have them take his app out of the pile. |
| Woops. AO, not AOC! Ha ha |
Although if you can get AOC to post in her social media that will probably help a ton too...so email both! |
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Had not thought of that- thanks for sharing.
And, yes, AOC could be a huge help. |
Not if the AO happens to be MAGA supporter
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PP here. Ha ha! Go for it! |
Why do you think they make $15 an hour? |
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I am an alumni interviewer. I had a kid claim he had a business making websites. I asked how much he made. He claimed he netted 10 grand a year. I asked for a couple of websites he had designed. I didn't make it sound agressive. I just said that sounded really cool and I'd like to see what a couple looked like so I could mention it in my report. He told me that "off the top" of his head he could only remember one.
The website was copyrighted with his name. I searched and couldn't find any others. Quick search on the name of the business owner showed it was kid's uncle. I put in my report that I was sceptical about the business--explaining the reasons why--and that, if it was an important factor in the admissions decision, I thought some follow up questions about the business were warranted. He didn't get in. He did get into another equally prestifious college. I am sure the kid wasn't asking for fin aid. I don't know if the AO ever followed up. But I really did not believe the kid--business was his most important EC by far. |
I have a similar story. Note that all these conversations between my friend and me took place after the admissions cycle had ended. A friend did an alumni interview for a T10 school with a young man who said he started a business selling ... I forget, light-up hoverboards or something? He said he did more than $100,000 in sales and had a flashy web site. She raved about this kid to me; thought he was really exceptional for doing this, and that she wrote him the strongest rec letter she had ever done (and keep in mind, as a T10 interviewer, she has seen some incredible applicants.) I directed her to our town's FB moms group, where the mom was spending all day every day posting about hoverboards for sale and basically unloading them at cost. The parents had literally bought a pallet of these things just so the kid could "start a business." Kid was rejected at that T10 and HYP, ended up somewhere around the bottom of the T30. I'd like to think it's because AOs saw through it. Who knows. Point being, there are a lot of shady liars out there, and I think it's coming from the parents. |
Did the guidance counselor watch the student to submit the application? If the student wants to put fake information on the application, they can always revise the application when they submit. Not saying the student would lie, but this kind of "measure" does not prevent someone from lying on the application. It only fixes unintentional errors. |
I wish all high schools would and could do this. Our kid is in HS and has been with some of the same kids for years. DH and I joke about how one friend will spin stuff for his college applications (I.e. will report founding and organization or devoting significant time to something he showed up for once). |
Sometimes they do verify. A friend of mine who coaches the HS chess team once had a Top 10 school email to ask him about a student's claims. The kid was lying and my friend cleared the matter up. |