| If you are enrolling your child in a home daycare, you might find a new unlicensed home daycare provider willing to do this. |
OP here -- is "unlicensed" a safe option? Not sure how it works |
| I hope your hormones kick in, OP, because you’re currently a bad mother. |
Lol - starting to think this is a troll. |
In can be. An experienced unlicensed provider would be a safer option, but they will turn down your request for 24 hour care. Most safe options will decline you request. |
Or a licensed one. |
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Gotta be a troll.
Are people this stupid? |
| Op, the vast majority of people will judge you as a terrible mother for even contemplating leaving your 4.5 month old for a week (though if you were a man few would bat an eye.) It’s far more socially acceptable (though much pricier) to bring a nanny along on your trip rather than having her stay home with the baby …even though the baby would probably be more comfortable in the latter scenario. |
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Regarding OP's last option -- I would never, ever take a friend's 4.5 month old baby for 8 days, no matter how close. I probably wouldn't do it for a family member either, unless it was a dire emergency. That's a lot of responsibility to put on someone, and would be incredibly irresponsible of the parents. There are simply too many risks and variables.
OP, you already know you wouldn't be nursing? Baby would be completely healthy? Sleeping through the night ok? |
❤️ |
Are their not limits on the number of hours a licensed one can provide care in a day? |
Even thinking of leaving your baby with an UNLICENSED provider is insane. Just NO. |
If a man wanted to dump his baby for a week with a stranger, something tells me DCUM would judge like crazy. |
| You could give the baby up for adoption. |
| that's pretty early to leave a baby behind. if you do, it would be with a family member or your regular nanny. |