Agree. I ended up very lucky with both of my parents - each one was hospitalized and could only be released to a nursing home. For our dad, we chose the one closest to our parents' house. For our mom, we chose the only nonprofit of the four available in town as it had the best facilities and ended up having great staff (can be easier when employees are not compelled to ration Depends and sheets by corporate overseers). Having some money to private pay is enormously helpful while applying for Medicaid. |
Did either of your parents have to prove they could pay for a certain number of months? My parent has enough in the bank to pay for 4-6 months at the most. No other assets whatsoever and less than $2000 in SS income. |
If your parent is hospitalized, sometimes medicare will pay for a certain amount of days and if that facility accepts medicare, you then do the application while they are in the facility. The important thing is to make sure that facility takes medicaid. Otherwise, you either go into a bed, then apply for medicaid and hope they get approved OR you private pay for a few months with a facility that accepts medicaid. It usually takes 30-60 days to get approved for medicaid. Best to private pay for a few months to get in. Very hard to get a bed without a hospitalization or private pay, medicaid pending. |
This! |
Our dad had a fall and went to a nursing home/rehab facility under Medicare. He was kicked off Medicare for this kind of coverage in less than 3 weeks due to "insufficent progress." This was accurate but comes at you fast if you are told that your loved one will be there for 30 days under Medicare then a hybrid for 60 more days. Fortunately the nursing home let him ride while I worked my tuches off to get him qualified for Medicaid. Denied once, approved second time, but they took the FULL 45 days to review then deny/approve each of his apps. Our mom also ended up after hospitalization after a UTI. She had roughly 80K in the bank, so we spent that down while applying. Again, denied once, approved second time. I don't think that it was an accident that the deny/approve happened twice or that they took a total of 90 days to review the apps. Some states will do anything to keep folks off the rolls as long as possible. That's why I strongly urge folks to speak with professionals. I was simply going to use the lawyer who had handled our dad's case, but my mom's facility said they could handle it. They failed miserably and I went back to the lawyer for the appeal. I have a professional grad degree from an Ivy and I was flummoxed with the process, especially for our dad as our mom was the community spouse and allowed some assets, etc. |
| Just skimmed the replies but I didn't see a reminder to you that receipt of rent from an apartment is income and therefore may be taxable. Just another thought as you work through all of this. |
It sounds like your situation was different as there was money involved. We have a few thousand and that was it. We had no issue getting my mil approved but the hard psrt was finding a bed Medicaid pending. Zero need for an attorney and I did not go to an ivy and yet somehow figured it out. |