What is the best age to get married at in 2022?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Bro and SIL met at 20, got engaged at 22, married at 24, parents at 30. They achieved 2 undergrad degrees, 1 MBA, 1 MD, 1 residency, 3 jobs and 1 house before having kids. It can be done. It’s been 22 years since they met and still going strong.

Do not get married at 24 because someone else did almost 22 years ago.

This isn’t an only anecdote, lots of early (not teen) marriages do really well, age (early or late) increases odds of failure but doesn’t cause divorce. It’s couple and circumstance dependent.

[Anonymous]

Just like marrying later doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage, marrying early doesn’t guarantee an unhappy one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just like marrying later doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage, marrying early doesn’t guarantee an unhappy one.

Not quite the same analogy. Nice try.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just like marrying later doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage, marrying early doesn’t guarantee an unhappy one.

So then promise getting married at 16.

[Anonymous]

*promote

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Bro and SIL met at 20, got engaged at 22, married at 24, parents at 30. They achieved 2 undergrad degrees, 1 MBA, 1 MD, 1 residency, 3 jobs and 1 house before having kids. It can be done. It’s been 22 years since they met and still going strong.

Do not get married at 24 because someone else did almost 22 years ago.

This isn’t an only anecdote, lots of early (not teen) marriages do really well, age (early or late) increases odds of failure but doesn’t cause divorce. It’s couple and circumstance dependent.

No judgement in the OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:*promote

No judgement here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s more than just a number but I would say 25-35

I would say this is accurate. But I'd also say if you are getting married before 27/28, you better be doing it because you have a good head on your shoulders and know this person is compatible.

I met my DH when I was 25 and we got married when I was 29. We probably could have gotten married a year or 2 earlier, but I'm glad we waited a bit. We just had fun. Which now I'm so glad we did because we have little kids and spend most nights on our couch not really having fun

You don’t have to have kids right away, wait as much as you need.

If you get married at 30, you don’t have much time to waste if you want kids.

[Anonymous]

I'm certainly not getting married in 2022, I'm already married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Bro and SIL met at 20, got engaged at 22, married at 24, parents at 30. They achieved 2 undergrad degrees, 1 MBA, 1 MD, 1 residency, 3 jobs and 1 house before having kids. It can be done. It’s been 22 years since they met and still going strong.

Do not get married at 24 because someone else did almost 22 years ago.

Probably scared to leave each other, they are naive and may be the only partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Just like marrying later doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage, marrying early doesn’t guarantee an unhappy one.

So then promise getting married at 16.

Well, 16 is minor and illegal as well and everyone is against it. However, 21+ can easily work for right couple in right circumstances.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Bro and SIL met at 20, got engaged at 22, married at 24, parents at 30. They achieved 2 undergrad degrees, 1 MBA, 1 MD, 1 residency, 3 jobs and 1 house before having kids. It can be done. It’s been 22 years since they met and still going strong.

Do not get married at 24 because someone else did almost 22 years ago.

Probably scared to leave each other, they are naive and may be the only partner.

In love, best friends and a power couple.

[Anonymous]

No judgement allowed.

[Anonymous]

There are no absolutes, if age was the major factor, no one marrying after 30 would be divorcing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My Bro and SIL met at 20, got engaged at 22, married at 24, parents at 30. They achieved 2 undergrad degrees, 1 MBA, 1 MD, 1 residency, 3 jobs and 1 house before having kids. It can be done. It’s been 22 years since they met and still going strong.

Do not get married at 24 because someone else did almost 22 years ago.

Well, 24 isn’t too early for someone dating for 4 years and engaged for 2.