Gender blind guy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't date a guy who still had roommates at this point in my life
I also don't date guys with only female friends btdt, don't care how many hit dogs holla guys like this are always fbois

Seeing as how OP describes an off-campus apartment and classmates, I’m guessing she’s still in college.

I answered Ops question. Did you? Go piss off.

Yikes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men with single or stronger mothers, grandmothers and sisters tend to dislike toxic male masculinity and seek deeper intimacy most male friends can offer. Some of them are gay or feminine or players but others only want surrogate females for emotional support.

Once they start romantic relationships, their need of intimacy gets fulfilled or GF/Wife feel bothered by other females so they aren’t likely to stay this way forever.

OP here, he has a very submissive mother but three dominating sisters.

[Anonymous]

I almost never had male friends growing up. At most one or two at any given time and often times none. I also rarely had any female friends. Basically I was alone and sad. I definitely got along better with girls/women though. And as I got older, I had a much easier time opening up and speaking to women. Even today that's true. I have one single male friend and many female friends. Also, I'm trans and transitioned male to female.

Of course I'm not saying this person is transgender of course. It's possible he just doesn't like any stereotypical male hobbies. It's very difficult for men to find other friends of the same gender if they do not like stereotypical things like sports or cars. Men bond over those types of things.

[Anonymous]

Best male friend from college was like this. Still is, and yes he’s gay. Says he’s bi, but has only been in LTR with men for the past 20 years.

[Anonymous]

It's a red or yellow flag

[Anonymous]

Not everyone with with opposite gender roommate is gay or friends with benefits, majority is trying to save on rent by sharing with someone they can tolerate.

[Anonymous]

How would you differentiate if someone is comfortable with his feminine side or is actually on the feminine side? You are unfair if you assume and rude if you ask.

[Anonymous]

the problem is men are not "allowed" or encouraged to have emotional friendships with other men.

The men who want to share emotions end up with female friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How would you differentiate if someone is comfortable with his feminine side or is actually on the feminine side? You are unfair if you assume and rude if you ask.

Have you asked his roommates about him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How would you differentiate if someone is comfortable with his feminine side or is actually on the feminine side? You are unfair if you assume and rude if you ask.

Have you asked his roommates about him?

If they know you are his GF and are good friends with you, wouldn’t they say something?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How would you differentiate if someone is comfortable with his feminine side or is actually on the feminine side? You are unfair if you assume and rude if you ask.

It would be nice if humans were transparent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How would you differentiate if someone is comfortable with his feminine side or is actually on the feminine side? You are unfair if you assume and rude if you ask.

It would be nice if humans were transparent.

I'm definitely a trans parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Would you feel concerned if the guy you are dating lives in a shared off campus apartment with 4 female classmates and 90% of his friends are females? I don’t see it as worrisome but feeling alarmed since a friend questioned it. Is it possible he is confused about his gender or sexuality? Is this a red flag?

I am a heterosexual male who had more female friends than male in my 20's and early 30's (probably 60/40 female/male). I never roomed with any but probably wouldn't have thought twice about it. At the office, I bond equally well with men and women. I don't think it's necessarily a red flag unless you see specific behavior that concerns you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, that's a ridiculous conclusion.

But I wouldn't date him either. No way. I only value men with other male friends. Men who are friends with 90 percent women are trouble or weird.

- and likely carry one or more infectious diseases.

[Anonymous]

Absentee dads or dominating moms or vice versa can influence friendship choices?