This. I had a baby in May 2020. Older DD was 4 at the time and her daycare reopened around the time DD2 was born. We kept older DD home until baby was 8wo, per the advice of our pediatrician. He was less concerned about covid itself and more so about the dangers of fever in a newborn. However, we were fortunate that DH was WFH at the time and could help me with both kids. |
| My husband has covid right now. He has cold symptoms only. I have 4 kids, 3 of whom have cold symptoms, including the 3.5-month-old. The other kid has diarrhea. I am not concerned about the baby as it’s very mild for her and we are not masking because we were already all exposed to each other. |
Usually 8 weeks |
This. People seem to forget the consequences of a newborn with fever. |
This. And have the nanny stay home. |
+100. |
| Even in non Covid times I was very protective of my newborn in the winter. I worried about rsv, flu, colds and the possibility of my newborn getting a spinal tap. The older child was bathed and changed once she got home and when she inevitably got sick separated from the newborn. Fortunately I had a caregiver that was able to separate from the toddler while I took care of the sick older child. It’s really hard and you may consider keeping the older one home until the newborn no longer needs a spinal tap if he or she gets sick. |
Did you allow visitors to see the newborn, or wait until after the 8-week period? |
DP. My first DD was a January baby, born pre-pandemic. The only visitors we had prior to 8 weeks were grandparents, all 4 of whom were up to date on vaccinations, including flu shots and whooping cough. We'd had family friends with a newborn who ended up with a spinal tap due to fever, and I didn't want to risk that. |
It's up to your taste for risk. And how willing you are to irritate hovering grandmothers and other relatives. And whether or not you have to work. |