Miss sex so much

[Anonymous]

OP and if this is really untrue please tell me where said options are so I can find them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous[b wrote:]Get on the apps! There are so many people out there looking for the same thing you are[/b].

55 y.o. male here. Just also left a long and abusive marriage. My exW was NPD diagnosed. COVID cut off most of the regular avenues I had for my social life and meeting people, and I went on three apps: Tinder; Bumble and Happn. The problem I have now is there are way too many interested women out there - divorced or single - in my age range - say 45 - 60 - who respond to my profile that it's literally like I have a "binder full of women." I am at no loss for getting a date if I want one. I did develop a short and intense relationship with a lovely woman that I would've liked to develop further, but she decided she had other priorities so we "broke up" but are friends. And that's a good side of this too: I've a met a few women where there was no spark on the romantic end but we liked each other enough to be friends and hand out. It's been fun. No need to feel lonely.

Next step is to take a few of those that you have a connection with and develop a roster of FWBs. That way, you never have a drought.

Yes. That's what I need.

I had this exact arrangement for about a year after I ended a long term, sexless relationship. I had four guys that I saw who really weren’t relationship material but our chemistry was off the charts. They were each hot, fun to hang out with and amazing in bed in their own way. That year is definitely where my sex life peaked. Lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous[b wrote:]Get on the apps! There are so many people out there looking for the same thing you are[/b].

55 y.o. male here. Just also left a long and abusive marriage. My exW was NPD diagnosed. COVID cut off most of the regular avenues I had for my social life and meeting people, and I went on three apps: Tinder; Bumble and Happn. The problem I have now is there are way too many interested women out there - divorced or single - in my age range - say 45 - 60 - who respond to my profile that it's literally like I have a "binder full of women." I am at no loss for getting a date if I want one. I did develop a short and intense relationship with a lovely woman that I would've liked to develop further, but she decided she had other priorities so we "broke up" but are friends. And that's a good side of this too: I've a met a few women where there was no spark on the romantic end but we liked each other enough to be friends and hand out. It's been fun. No need to feel lonely.

Something tells me the experience of a 55 yo man will be unlike the experience of a 50 yo woman. Just a hunch, hope I’m wrong.

As a 53 y.o. man, I suspect you're correct.

Well, since neither of you is a 50 year old woman on dating apps, and I am, I am here to advise you and anyone else who is interested, that you're both wrong.

[Anonymous]

^Great. Which ones? 50yo woman here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^Great. Which ones? 50yo woman here.

I use Tinder and OkCupid.
I got the most interest from about age 38-42, but I still get a lot. Put up some good photos and you'll be fine.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^Great. Which ones? 50yo woman here.

I use Tinder and OkCupid.
I got the most interest from about age 38-42, but I still get a lot. Put up some good photos and you'll be fine.

But I’m not looking for ONSs or FWBs. I’m looking for a real relationship with another grownup.

[Anonymous]

That's fine. You'll still get matches. You just need to vet them.

[Anonymous]

I had a friend ask her friends if they knew someone she could just have sex with. They found her someone!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a friend ask her friends if they knew someone she could just have sex with. They found her someone!

Again, I’m not interested in someone to just have sex with.