i just need some support :/

Anonymous
i dont know where else to go with this. please dont judge i am trying my hardest.

i am a recovering anorexic. lately i have been having trouble eating. between the nausea and the anorexia, i find it very hard. i have only been eating dinner but i am trying and i am eating a nice big bowl of mini wheats. i know most of you dont know the aspects of an eating disorder and all that it entails but i could really use some advice and support. what foods have helped you with nausea? if anyone has been in my position i would love to hear what helped you through. i am thinking about going to see a dietician. anybody with encouragement is appriciated. thank you and please dont judge. im having enough trouble as it is and i really dont want to hear negative comments.
Anonymous
Have you talked to your OB? There are meds that can help with the nausea. I found that bland carbs were all I could stomach when I had bad nausea. You can also try flat soda.
Anonymous
I know a woman who was anorexic when she got pregnant and she was sent to a high-risk OB. Definitely seek specialist advice - high-risk OB and/or nutritionist. Please. My acquaintance now has a healthy happy toddler and I am sad to say is as horrifyingly thin as ever. You can do this.
Anonymous
thank you guys. it means a lot that you didnt judge or say nasty things. like im very touched. thank you. and your advice will be tried and listened to.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Have you talked to your OB? There are meds that can help with the nausea. I found that bland carbs were all I could stomach when I had bad nausea. You can also try flat soda.


Definitely talk with your OB. Mine recommended: http://www.sea-band.com/

(The nausea stage usually doesn't last long. So hang in there.)
Anonymous
Do hang in there with the nausea, it's so tough at this stage. Things that helped me: crackers (all day, every day, also substituted with pretzels, goldfish, potato chips); ginger ale; Coke; really just eating whatever appealed to me at the moment.

I do think it's worth talking to your OB about your anorexia, if you've not already, so you can get some guidance. You know first-hand what a struggle it is, and you don't need to manage it on your own--particularly through pregnancy, during which many women feel particularly vulnerable. Take good care.
Anonymous
the only trouble is i have a dry mouth right now like i cant eat bread and crackers that easily although they do seem to help. i just gotta push through and keep eating them though lol i will definitely talk to my ob
Anonymous
The only thing I could eat when I had morning sickness were Cheetos. Not the healthiest food, but I could keep 'em down!
Anonymous
what about bland meat? like plain grilled chicken? then you'd get some protein.

a dietician is a good idea. But i would also suggest a therapist, so you have someone to talk it through.
Anonymous
Have you tried a support group?

Also, maybe you can buy some literature from the ABA (12-step group). Maybe they have a nice daily meditation book.

Also, I think therapy might be helpful with someone certified in CBT who specializes in eating disorders.

Hugs OP
Anonymous
I found really strong ginger beer helpful. World Market has a variety.
Anonymous
I don't have any advice, but I wanted to offer support. I am in the throws of terrible 1st trimester nausea. On top of feeling like crap, it is so emotionally draining. Hang in there. Talk to your OB. Be kind to yourself.
Anonymous
What about Greek yogurt smoothies?
Anonymous
Oh OP - my heart goes out to you. This sounds really hard and I don't have any advice but I just want to say that I am sorry you are going through this and you can do this! I am dealing with nausea now and I can onky imagine how hard it must be with your recovery. Go easy on yourself smd tslk with your doctor. A nutritionist and support network seem to be the right path too. Good luck!
Anonymous
bagels slathered in cream cheese and juice to help with the dry mouth. Good luck!
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