Discouraged- two chemical pregnancies

[Anonymous]

I was pregnant in Novemeber and at 6.5 weeks or so had a miscarriage. This month I tested positive a week ago and started bleeding on Friday. The pregnancy tests are negative now. These were pregnancy number 5 and 6 and we have three beautiful children. I feel sad and like my body is betraying me a little bit. These chemical pregnancies have not bothered DH much, he had not gotten attached. And to be honest I was not invested in this most recent pregnancy yet either, it had only been a few days ! But still am worried about my fertility, or eggs- I have not had a problem getting pregnant but with three m/c out of six I am worried. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

Sorry to hear about this. How old are you?

[Anonymous]

37. Third baby at 35.

[Anonymous]

That sounds pretty normal for age 37. Your eggs are getting older, but given your three prior successful pregnancies the odds are still in your favor. I wouldn't worry too much.

[Anonymous]

I actually would talk to your OB. Three miscarriages isn't necessarily the norm; most women who have chemical pregnancies--or miscarriages for other reasons--go on to carry pregnancies to term. And 37 isn't that old, either.

I'm really sorry to hear about your losses, that must be tough. Hang in there.

[Anonymous]

Thanks to those that have replied, I don't think I am old either, so have been feeling extra betrayed. My first m/c was five years ago in between baby 1 and baby 2. These last two have happened almost back to back with one period in between. My periods are normal and I have never had any problems before now. I did make an appt with my OB for a follow up. I am wondering if my progesterone is low and that might be causing a problem.

[Anonymous]

I lost 3 pregnancies with the same timing as you. It turned out my progesterone was low. It took a lot of complaining to get my OB to test for it, but I had a successful pregnancy with Endometrim use in the first trimester.

[Anonymous]

Op here. Saw OB today. I am still having symptoms of pregnancy, sore breasts, nausea, he did not see anything on sono and ordered a blood test to confirm either way. Thought it might be too early to see much as i am just barely into fifth week. I did not bleed much and he was not convinced that I had a chemical. Of course I feel that it is a long shot and most of my symptoms are in my head but I am crossing fingers regardless. I will know on Monday.

[Anonymous]

This sounds like my situation. I had many MC. Turns out I had a blood issue and low progestr. I would def ask you dr. GOOD LUCK! I hope things get better for you.

[Anonymous]

37 is old in fertility years.

I would re-examine your family plans. Specifically whether a difficult pregnancy, special needs child, etc would put a strain on you or if it's still worth the risk.

[Anonymous]

Op here. To immediate pp, your advice is not well received. You assume that my partner and I have not had these discussions. You aren't helpful. That is a different post. Find another person to be rude to. I am specifically looking for advice on TTC, not AMA.

[Anonymous]

I had a LOT of chemicals. My doctor put me on baby aspirin (I was 35, I think) and I truly believe that is what did the trick for me. Sorry for your having to go through this - I know it really sucks.