Yeah, most of us aren't willing to go through the crazy lengths it would take to be as thin as we were in our 20s. Having a little extra weight on you as you age is not necessarily a bad thing. If your body is naturally thin that's one thing, but not all of us are. Nor do we pretend to be. |
At a work meeting, everyone needs a water jug, coffee cup, or other drink. It's like we are all going to die of thirst during the 30 minute meeting without immediate access to liquids. |
I am! I think even a little extra weight is aging |
Um, the pp did NOT say that they ate FEW calories. There is NO WAY that anyone gets fat without eating more calories than they burn. |
No fast food. Families ate meals together. |
This. We tolerated hunger and thirst. Now some whacky people put it into our heads that we should never be hungry. BS. If you can't tolerate hunger, how can you control yourself? I have been around people who can't stay on task without running for a drink or a snack. I am not talking hunger, just "I could eat something", and off they go. Consume 200 calories and get back to work, by day's end, they've eaten 500 more calories than me and they wonder why I am not obese. |
| Just got back from London and this is what struck me. At Heathrow, I (and everyone else) walked quite a distance through the terminal. I'd estimate I walked for a good 15-20 minutes to get to my gate. Once I got to the airport in Newark, that same walk was replaced by a train to the next terminal. Americans are overweight because they consume too many calories and then don't burn them off. I had a few dinners at very expensive restaurants while in London (I wasn't paying so why not?). I had 4 courses and wasn't stuffed when I was finished. I haven't eaten out at a restaurant in the U.S. feeling not completely stuffed in so many years I can't remember how long it's been. The portions are completely ridiculous but after a while, you don't notice it anymore. I'm so used to feeling stuffed and then putting the rest into a take home container. |
I'm sorry you're so insecure
All it is is vanity bc 10lbs extra is not unhealthy. For example, if at 5'2" you "should be" 105-110lbs for thinness, then being 115-120 is just as fine. And if you still don't think so, then that's your unfortunate problem to deal with. My sweet MIL, thank god, had an extra 20lbs, it likely saved her life when she had pneumonia. |
By your estimation, everyone must be insecure. There is nothing wrong with caring about how you look. And BTW, in my family, people develop type II diabetes with a BMI of 26. When they lose weight down to a BMI of 22, the blood sugars normalize. |
| Dads had blue collar jobs with labor, mom cooked home made meals and dads mowed lawns, painted house, did bowling leagues and softball |
I was born in 72. |
Then you were not middle class. The house sizes then compared to mcmansions of today must have confused you |
No not everyone smoked. That is such a myth. Out of my large extended family going back to the 1940s, the only smoker was my grandfather who smoked a pipe. Yes smoking rates were much higher, but it was not the majority of people. |
I was middle class. Born in 72, lived in a 3 bedroom ranch, dad was a govt engineer, and mom stayed home. We had two cars, a station wagon and a VW bug. I did not know a single family with only one car, including my lower middle class grandparents. |
I should add that even in the 1950's my grandparents who were enlisted navy and a sahm had two cars. |