It is true. Not actually a phenomenon from top schools though. For example, in my area with a flagship, kids say to take orgo elsewhere at regional campuses over summer. The med schools are cracking down though and do not like when applicants take classes elsewhere barring a good reason which there are some. They can see when the are trying to game it by outsourcing hard classes. |
LOL, nice try. That trick might work for wine, but it won’t work for something you have to live and breathe for 4 years. Have someone look at a $650,000 old 1000 square foot house and then a $1.2 mil updated 2500 square foot house in the same area. But switch the price tags and try to trick them! Do you really think that someone will believe that the fake “$1.2 mil” 1000 square foot house is “better” than the updated 2500 square foot house because it has a higher price tag? I get your point, since I have a relative who refuses to buy store-brand foods because she believes them inferior. But hardly comparable to the bigger ticket items and experiences in life. |
The point is to apply this consumer behavior to college selection, and you can explain DCUM. |
In your example, some people will judge based on price tags alone—it all depends on how something is labeled or promoted. That’s the power of marketing (just look at U.S. News). PP’s wine example is technically different from yours, but the net effect is the same: people assume expensive things must be better for some “secret” reason. Nothing will miraculously make someone more successful or respectable. Even with 90K+ |
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These posts are annoying and there is no satisfying anyone. For those that can afford it, they’ve deemed the $90k worth it for their reasons. For those that can’t or don’t have the option due to being denied, of course they’re going to dismiss the worth. Then add in all the different interpretations of a successful outcome, how can there possibly be a consensus.
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Got it. The better cohort of peers folks cite as a reason to spend so much money is a lie. Thanks for clearing it up. |
NP with indulgent digression here: I went to a lower tier university in my home state; I also had a part-time sales job at a major department store nearby. Over the summer, the CFO’s kid, who went to our nationally-respected state flagship, came to work there as well. He smugly declared that he was going to take a lit class over the summer at my lower tier university so he’d get an easy A to transfer. I was an English Lit major and asked who the prof was. I knew she was a tough grader as I’d put in a lot of effort for my A in her class. He did not get an A. I’m not proud to say that I quietly enjoyed this outcome for him. |
The bigger, more expensive, updated house might be a total POS and the older, less expensive, smaller house might be a charming well-crafted quality home. I could EASILY believe the price tags could be switched and you’d have people calling it fair. I’m shocked that you can’t. Are you a product of a school that would be 90K today, by any chance? |
No one is trying to convince anyone. A rational debate about OP's question [Which college is worth $90k?] Do you need to convince others why you buy Hermès? |
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The most annoying thing is when people use them to make some faux-moral point about how much they value education by paying for the most expensive schools relative to all of these other made-up people who apparently don’t value education. And these invented people are wasting their money on expensive cars, handbags, and vacations (it’s always those three) and then don’t let their kids go to an expensive school. Comes up multiple times on every thread related to college cost, even when that isn’t the question asked. |
And then you had to go back to work. Nice win. |
That was my post and glad they got the tough grader also! The premeds all chatter online, they know where to go and what prof to choose. Less risk now. |
Developing a solid work ethic > sense of entitlement. Agreed, that is a nice win. |
| It is not about the money. It depends on where your kid fits in. Will your kid love a school with few parties?? A fun school with a good football team?? A party school?? |