Overplayed or not, honesty is the best policy. My kid loves looking at boobies and tits, and is applying to colleges where they can pursue their hobby further. |
+1 ^ this |
Nobody is telling your kid if they are lying like that. And you have zero idea whether they did or not. People come up with crazy ideas in their head when one kid gets in over their own child and start nasty untrue gossip. |
Did birding work anyone this past cycle? Cornell (and Yale?) have large birding clubs.... |
ECs are more important than essays - they're the bones and muscles, the essay is just the skin. And all competitive applicants have the rigor/grades/scores, they ECs are the distinguisher. |
I agree. I understand that colleges make holistic decisions that are primarily based on verifiable achievements, but come on. Don't lie to yourself and us, and pretend that less measurable achievements, which might or might not be fabricated, don't tip the scales, even unconsciously, in the minds of the application readers. |
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| oh god with these ECs. I scroll through dozens of resumes for college interns every week. Everyone was the president of like a dozen different things all at the same time. AOs must be testing the theoretical c with how fast their eyes must be rolling. |
how did the school profile change and how did that help the student? Why would a teacher care about a club election? |
I see what you did there. Good luck with the birding |
| I should probably stay away from this thread, but for highly selective colleges, we have had multiple AOs tell us that they spot check the activities list. Do they do it for every kid? Nope, but for the ones they may accept - absolutely. Most of the things people here seem convinced kids are lying about (even though you have not read their applications!!!) are easily verifiable, usually by a google search. They will also reach out to the HS college office if something looks strange. As for whether captain or co-captain of a varsity team means anything - that is dependent on the school - the AOs know the schools well - and most captains at our school, for example, would have a letter from their coach as an additional LOR. |
| It is bizarre that so many bitter posters think they know so much more about how to read applications than professionals with decades of experience. The college admissions process has made parents crazy. |
Now, go and look at 30-40 AO profiles at T20. 50% of them have less than 3 years experience. The main readers are all temp or inexperienced. That does not mean they do not get training, but it is not "decades of experience" by a long shot. It is a starter job for college graduates and then they move on to something else. |
Thread is from 2023. |