Sorry, I’ll use the language of my generation. You can continue to argue like your Boomer generation. |
Nah, go to the relationships forum. |
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DP. You nailed my suspicions / the two of them have bitter, deep fights and the kids are pawns. Jim weaponized legal decision-making over necessary drugs then when he moved, she tried to act unilaterally and he pounced. Now, he’s rid of his Meghan problem. No more flights back-and-forth to STL. No more dealing with her concerns about their special-needs child. Now he can make all the decisions himself without all the inconveniences, without their grandparents’ influence, without their pain in the neck mother in the picture upsetting his new wife. |
And time will tell if the child does better or worse with his father and if he is as severely disabled and as unmanageable as Meghan described. It was clear that Jim’s understanding of his disabilities after talking with the doctors was different from Meghan’s. According to Jim in 2022, the doctor told him he did not have a cerebral palsy diagnosis. That he had a condition called PVL - peri ventricular leukomalacia. Jim was also opposed to every detail of his son’s health and behaviour being documented publicly. |
Yes, absolutely this. I think it is likely related to Jim withholding consent, but there's obviously no way we will ever know what exactly was going on. But the ridiculous over-simplified crap being reported by entertainment sites about it is just that, crap. Meghan herself has reported in the past that Jim has been a toad in the road when it has come to getting the diagnoses and care the boys have needed. And when that happens in joint medical decision-making, it's a nightmare and you have to go back to court every. single. time. Bottom line, we do not know what actually happened. We will never know. |
I don’t understand how the prior custody agreement didn’t have ant language about limiting the child’s medical information being routinely blasted online? I know most states don’t have overarching laws protecting children’s privacy but if Jim didn’t want all details shared, that’s what he should have been fighting for in their custody battles. |
I wish that was standard in every custody agreement. I hate all the kids on social media / family influencer pages and channels and how much of their lives is shared. I wish social media sites would not allow that content either. |
Periventricular Leukomalacia is a brain injury and a major precursor to Cerebral Palsy. CP is the most common outcome of PV.
Jim is a unconscionable petty d**k for denying and slow-rolling the medical care for his son, and likely the other one, too. |
Jim and his team should have also been prevented from leaking "information" in the media in the recent months in order to smear Meghan. |
I agree we really need government legislation. Meta and Google will never voluntarily limit kids since it will impact their revenue. |
Might as well add Meghan talking to Kelly Dodd since Meghan has been using her as a mouthpiece. |
False. Kelly said one thing weeks ago when the news first broke. Likely a knee-jerk response to the shock of it all. She hasn't said anything since. Meghan is allowed to lean on friends and family for support. Clearly no one else has said anything. |
She may have verbally said something once, which I doubt, but she has been commenting on various instagram posts. |
A "mouthpiece" that does not make. She did simply call Jim a "d**k" on a news post when the most recent news came out. She is certainly allowed to share her opinion. What other comments is she posting, specifically outing details about the situation and acting as Meghan's mouthpiece? |
There are different causes of pvl, different severities, and different outcomes. Since the twins were 37 weeks at birth and over 6 pounds, they are in the category that typically has the more mild cases and the best outcomes. CP is not the most common outcome for all types and all severities. I don’t know the underlying causes for the twins but it isn’t a foregone conclusion that they would have CP. |