Kane from Kaneshow divorcing and crying on air right now (Part 3)

[Anonymous]

Lol wonder how much she gets in support

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Anonymous wrote:So I agree that it would be good for N to get a job and get out there but it won't be financially easy. I had a really wonderful friend who was super smart and great at her job but the amount of money she was making at our job was less than it costed for her to put her kids in daycare, so she had to quit and committed to bring a SAHM. Now she is looking at joining the job force again bc her kids are older.

I hire a lot of moms at my job (I own a small business) and it can be difficult for them to find employment bc if a child gets sick at school and they need to pick the kid up, they have to leave work...which doesn't rub many employers well. Since Kane works from like 4am or whatever to 1 or two, she's the only one who can get them going in the AM....and he's likely unable to pick them up after the little one is done with her half day. They would have to hire a nanny which may not make financial sense. She does also have fibromyalgia, which another friend of mine has, and I know it flares up with stress and can be quite debilitating. This last year was probably stressful to say the least so it may make it difficult for her to get a job. Additionally, am I the only one who thinks Kane may not be ok with her working a "lowly" (not my opinion) retail job? He does have quite an ego.

As to people who are discussing how an er would let someone go with a wound on your head...you would be surprised what ers let people leave with. My father died after visiting an er bc they overlooked some symptoms of a serious infections and just gave him antibiotics and rushed him out. It happens.

More of a general question/observation and not entirely specific to her situation as there are others out there in the same situation, but I just don’t see how it is feasible for her to live off of alimony and child support for the rest of her life. I suppose she could get the house outright, half of their money outright, and child support for the next 10ish years, and invest that well. I suppose the best bet would be to get remarried.

My husband makes quite a bit more $$ than I do, but I’d still be able to support myself if he up and left.

I haven't been following closely but didn't she leave him ? She's young, and educated.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Danni is not officially divorce yet and already has a strange guy around her daughters. Impressive Danni. Smh....

My duty as the judging police comes back...

Don't assume anything about:

a.) Exactly who he is
b.) How far they have gone/how serious they are
c.) If Slim is doing the same exact thing, knowingly to Danni or not
d.) If Slim knows Danni is seeing other guys and is 100% ok with it
e.) If this guy has even met her girls
f.) How "strange" he really is

And g.) - it's really none of your business. Oh and h.) Is she just supposed to be 100% alone right now and not try to move on?

Again, all, speculate away, but it pisses me off when you judge her for something you are merely assuming... Do better...

Please don't assume I am someone... I am the same person that got pissy at you all for judging a week or so ago...

^^totally agree. I don't like her and judge her oversharing on Facebook, etc, but it's not fair for judging what we don't know. Thanks for sticking up for that!

[Anonymous]

sorry but everyone who has criticized natasha for calling herself a single parent is absolutely right. it's pretty insulting to actual single parents who have to work several jobs and have no support. when she first posted that on her instagram after kane's rant last summer, people jumped on her saying it's "co-parenting" since he has an equal part in raising the children (and 100% of the funds for the kids and for her).

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Anonymous wrote:This photo just popped up on my FB news feed. It's a photograph from Natasha's blog, but is being used to celebrate National Single Parent Day... I wonder how this originated...?

https://www.facebook.com/sharedofficial1/photos/a.114744708598396.18421.102431356496398/1131374416935415/?type=3&theater

I have seen that photo on all types of things. It has popped up a bunch. It was on one article called something like a letter to a my future daughter on a college blog website. I wouldn't look too much into it

[Anonymous]

When there is not help for daily life with the kids, I think calling yourself a single parent is fine

[Anonymous]

She's definitely not a single parent in any form or twist one may come up with. Sorry

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She's definitely not a single parent in any form or twist one may come up with. Sorry

What exactly does "single parent" mean to you? Haha you realize how judgy you sound, right? If it were flipped and a rich woman said no poor women could be single parents because they can't successfully provide for their children you'd be livid.

[Anonymous]

Guys she's a divorced parent.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

More of a general question/observation and not entirely specific to her situation as there are others out there in the same situation, but I just don’t see how it is feasible for her to live off of alimony and child support for the rest of her life. I suppose she could get the house outright, half of their money outright, and child support for the next 10ish years, and invest that well. I suppose the best bet would be to get remarried.

My husband makes quite a bit more $$ than I do, but I’d still be able to support myself if he up and left.

I haven't been following closely but didn't she leave him ? She's young, and educated.

Omg, why do you keep calling her educated/smart/etc. She got a degree after changing majors a bunch of times, which is easy to do. She's done NOTHING with that degree. It will not be easy for her to enter the workforce if she ever decides to. People straight out of college have hard time finding work, she's not that young anymore. Please be realistic. Being a SAHM is the most important job she can have, but not very realistic when many 2 parent homes can't afford to have a SAHP.
Tl;dr young and "educated" counts for nothing

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She's definitely not a single parent in any form or twist one may come up with. Sorry

What exactly does "single parent" mean to you? Haha you realize how judgy you sound, right? If it were flipped and a rich woman said no poor women could be single parents because they can't successfully provide for their children you'd be livid.

A single parent is one who is raising and supporting their kids on their OWN.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She's definitely not a single parent in any form or twist one may come up with. Sorry

What exactly does "single parent" mean to you? Haha you realize how judgy you sound, right? If it were flipped and a rich woman said no poor women could be single parents because they can't successfully provide for their children you'd be livid.

A single parent is one who is raising and supporting their kids on their OWN.

So what is she then? Shes single and she's a parent. I think single parent is a blanket term. Yall are on your high horse about that term. So weird

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This photo just popped up on my FB news feed. It's a photograph from Natasha's blog, but is being used to celebrate National Single Parent Day... I wonder how this originated...?

https://www.facebook.com/sharedofficial1/photos/a.114744708598396.18421.102431356496398/1131374416935415/?type=3&theater

I have seen that photo on all types of things. It has popped up a bunch. It was on one article called something like a letter to a my future daughter on a college blog website. I wouldn't look too much into it

just weird that they used natashas pic

[Anonymous]

She's not a single parent by today's standards...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She's definitely not a single parent in any form or twist one may come up with. Sorry

What exactly does "single parent" mean to you? Haha you realize how judgy you sound, right? If it were flipped and a rich woman said no poor women could be single parents because they can't successfully provide for their children you'd be livid.

A single parent is one who is raising and supporting their kids on their OWN.

So what is she then? Shes single and she's a parent. I think single parent is a blanket term. Yall are on your high horse about that term. So weird

She's a divorced parent who is co-parenting with her ex. Kane's job is the one that is still supporting them monetarily and I believe they share custody of the girls, as much as he is able to since he does have to work very early in the morning. I think many people who get offended do so because calling her a single parent makes it seem like she is doing everything all by herself with no assistance from anyone, which is not true. Yes, the girls spend their week with Natasha and she is the one who makes sure they get to school and are fed, but you can't just pretend like Kane isn't in the picture.