eharmony: deal breaker if I don't post photo?

[Anonymous]

Just joined yesterday, have been "talking" to a few people, but I am just not comfortable yet posting my picture online. Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Have to.

[Anonymous]

are you ugly or discrete?

[Anonymous]

deal breaker. I'd think you were hiding something.

[Anonymous]

I would be careful of people without a picture. You either post one or make it clear you're ready to email one once you're contacted.

[Anonymous]

ahhh, damn it.

[Anonymous]

Most men would pass by a profile with no photo. Not saying it's right, but that's the way it is. I'm a woman and come to think of it, I would pass by a man's profile sans photo.

[Anonymous]

Plus, it's not like match where anyone could see it. Only your "matches" will.

[Anonymous]

hit submit too quickly. I 'm not ugly per se but I am by no means photogenic and don't have a picture more recent than from 10 yrs ago....My only photographers are 5 and 7 so...?ugh.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:hit submit too quickly. I 'm not ugly per se but I am by no means photogenic and don't have a picture more recent than from 10 yrs ago....My only photographers are 5 and 7 so...?ugh.

Don't post an old picture; the other party might interpret that as negatively. If you are a 5-7, men who are way older and 0-0 will contact you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:hit submit too quickly. I 'm not ugly per se but I am by no means photogenic and don't have a picture more recent than from 10 yrs ago....My only photographers are 5 and 7 so...?ugh.

Get the 7 yr old to snap a pic or ask a friend or someone at the office.

[Anonymous]

On match you used to be able to show your photo only to people you contacted, so you could be discreet. I don't know how eharmony works but you have to show a recent photo to any person you want to consider you.