Well, as we've been told by teachers in this thread, parents have no power. Aside from voting. |
And you voted for the status quo, thus my disinterest in continuing |
I'm so lost as to why you wouldn't want to negotiate better resources for covering IEP services. It seems like it impacts teachers' time, and given a population in DC with a lot of kids that are behind, you'd think maybe we have a fair share of IEP kids. Then, you have parents who would SUPPORT YOU if you do this thing that is helpful to children. And your response is..."too bad you get what you get! We can't do anything!" Here is a place of commonality and you are rejecting it. |
You are choosing to read it that way. The point is we do negotiate for these things. You are telling us we haven’t done enough, when really we just aren’t able to enforce these things do the realities of day to day school. If you look in the MCPS forum (since you keep talking about the MCEA) you will find countless threads of people dissatisfied with services despite their stronger protections. Being with kids in the classroom comes first. Staffing in schools is underfunded to the point where there aren’t enough bodies to adequately cover meetings sometimes, despite what is on paper and what you want to be true. Idk maybe we’re just talking past each other at this point. |
More like losing truly RICH parents from elementary schools and Deal. The UMC parents in DCPS we know have almost all stuck around for lack of good alternatives. They don't want to move to the burbs, want to save for college and retirement and are mostly OK with their in-boundary schools in Upper NW or the tony areas of Ward 6. |
DP. Clearly WTU has not negotiated for IEP admin resources in the past. Compare the WTU contract to the MCEA contract. |
Oh and as for MCPS SN services: yes, there are always going to be complaints, but MCPS has a MUCH richer set of support programs for kids, esp on the spectrum. Part of that is size so I am not going to blame DCPS. But a lot is just willpower. For example MCPS has been a nationwide leader in 2E programs. And the administsration, coordination and compliance are just worlds apart. DCPS is mindbogglingly unconcerned with following procedural rules (as this discussion about teachers entering & leaving meetings at will demonstrates). My consultant who works mainly in MCPS has been literally speechless about it at every single meeting. |
The PP was saying that the WTU lost UMC parents, in terms of their support. Not that DCPS lost UMC parents. Two different things. |
How does anyone know WTU hasn’t tried to negotiate for more resources, support and time for IEP meetings and SN students? These negotiations are behind closed doors and the end result is just the contract. We don’t know what they asked for but it feels like posters on here keep blaming teachers for not negotiating more. But here is how things like this might go if they are in the contract: Class coverage is supposed to go in a rotating fashion so that one teacher doesn’t cover every day. Admin asks first year teacher to cover. First year teacher says I’ve covered every day this week, it must be someone else’s turn to cover. Admin says we don’t have anyone else you are covering this class. The end. The teacher can file a grievance which takes a long time and in the mean time deal with hostile administrators for filing a grievance. This is how IEP meeting time would work as well. |
Relevance? You either vote with your feet out of DCPS or stay. Two outcomes, that's it. Your "support" is irrelevant in a city where UMC parents with children in public schools are a sliver of the electoral pie, other than perhaps in terms of your financial contribution to a PTA. |
Uh, you can stay in DCPS but vote against the union-supported candidate. That's how those things can split. Staying in DCPS isn't supporting WTU, really. You can give money to your DCPS. That's not giving money to WTU. The thread is about support for WTU's new contract. This is a parent board. It leans very heavily to UMC. Why did the OP ask UMC parents about their support for WTU's contract if it is irrelevant? |
| or more simply put, DCPS =/= WTU |
The dynamic at play here illustrates much of the problem with these discussions (at least as they play out in anonymous forums). There is a difference between "I am unhappy with you and I am going to advocate for things to change" and "I am done with you." My impression (as a parent who grew up with privilege) is that many of the other parents in DCUM-land grew up with everyone chasing us and wanting us to participate in their school/coffee shop/store/social circle/college. We have lived our lives getting away with telling people they are dead to us and expecting them to beg us to come back or re-engage. What you don't learn when you grow up UMC and at the top of the food chain is people can live without you. When you declare yourself done/over, you aren't explaining your concerns or how to bridge a gap. You end the discussion and relationship and/or put it on the other side to do all the work going forward. In this case what's happening is the teachers are replying, "OK. If you are saying you are done with teachers and think we all suck then I am done trying to placate you. Either stay or leave." The parents who behave that way put themselves in a box because they have nowhere else to go from there. They aren't going to leave but they have no more dry powder because they already used it all when they declared "you lost me forever". I used to work in an industry with lots of clients, all of whom thought they were REALLY important. The economic reality was that it was a scale business and only the largest accounts mattered on a one off basis. When clients would call and abuse the reps on the phones, all the while threatening to close accounts, we would sometimes tell the client that was probably for the best and give them 30 days to close their accounts and move their assets, or we would liquidate and send them a check (and the associated tax consequences). Those clients were shocked. Many would pivot mid-sentence from having threatened to close their accounts to (incorrectly) claiming we didn't have the right to close their accounts (we did). They didn't realize until it was too late that they overplayed their hand. I am a parent. I am not now nor have I ever been a teacher. I do not like the WTU. I think they do a piss poor job protecting good teachers and spend a lot of time and energy defending and enabling the entrenched power structure that exists primarily to preserve their power. I think the WTU's comms teams are atrocious at what they do. They exhibit no ability to read a room and they antagonize parties who are natural allies (read: parents). I also think teaching is an insanely hard job. I think even when teachers fail they mean well; no one would teach "just for the glory and/or money". And I know that in any relationship, the moment I declare someone else dead to me or over or useless that there is a risk that they will reply "ok". So I don't do that unless I am truly removing myself from the relationship. If our kid is in bein educated in DCPS schools then you are NOT "done with teachers" or "exiting the relationship". Declaring it to be so doesn't help you achieve better outcomes. |
What a strange comment. |
Huh? DC parents (not just UMC) have options other than DCPS. This isn’t about what you imagine about the psyche of individuals. It’s about parents in significant numbers leaving DCPS - which will be a problem. |