Update: selling Hermès bags post

[Anonymous]

Well, now you know where to burgle when you run through your bag money.

[Anonymous]

It’s cool

Literally it’s OK sometimes I just get lit and feisty in the afternoons

It’s because I’ve got cancer so I’m a medical patient

And I’m trying to get rid of things and take care of my kids and I always have too many thoughts (particularly around 11am -2pm EST)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think you need friends IRL OP

Oh, I’ve had many, but as life goes on, they are largely overrated

Values diverge over time

I don’t like receiving cards or seeing social media accounts that end in references to the Bible

I didn’t like having friends who were elected to office who constantly called me for donations

I didn’t like having friends from prep school or my college who only called to get donations to the schools

Today in the social media age you generally just get calls to get money.

Or buy their MLM stuff or use you as marketing media.

I’m pretty sure if I’m unwanted here, I can be banned from posting.

I just think I have contributed enough and I don’t actually confabulate and have facts and details to back up things that I post.

Um none of these are actual friends. I have friends IRL, none are like this. You need to reevaluate your life and figure out why you've surrounded yourself with superficial and fake things/people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s cool

Literally it’s OK sometimes I just get lit and feisty in the afternoons

It’s because I’ve got cancer so I’m a medical patient

And I’m trying to get rid of things and take care of my kids and I always have too many thoughts (particularly around 11am -2pm EST)

Drug yourself how you want. Just don't come on here when you're lit. Find somewhere else to spew. I have friends with cancer and none behaved the way you did so don't use your cancer as an excuse. I have a chronic illness myself and don't do this on my bad days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cool

Literally it’s OK sometimes I just get lit and feisty in the afternoons

It’s because I’ve got cancer so I’m a medical patient

And I’m trying to get rid of things and take care of my kids and I always have too many thoughts (particularly around 11am -2pm EST)

Drug yourself how you want. Just don't come on here when you're lit. Find somewhere else to spew. I have friends with cancer and none behaved the way you did so don't use your cancer as an excuse. I have a chronic illness myself and don't do this on my bad days.

I think OP is just lonely. She doesn't have any real friends. Sounds like most of her life has been about superficial BS. Must be hard as you get older

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cool

Literally it’s OK sometimes I just get lit and feisty in the afternoons

It’s because I’ve got cancer so I’m a medical patient

And I’m trying to get rid of things and take care of my kids and I always have too many thoughts (particularly around 11am -2pm EST)

Drug yourself how you want. Just don't come on here when you're lit. Find somewhere else to spew. I have friends with cancer and none behaved the way you did so don't use your cancer as an excuse. I have a chronic illness myself and don't do this on my bad days.

I think OP is just lonely. She doesn't have any real friends. Sounds like most of her life has been about superficial BS. Must be hard as you get older

There have been plenty of threads about loneliness on DCUM over the years, and plenty of compassionate responses. OP's way of expressing herself and her obsession with money and bling are turning people off. It's just crass and mindless. DCUM is populated by a larger ratio of intellectual, non-flashy, types (even though they may be quite wealthy) than typical internet boards, so it's not a good mix.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cool

Literally it’s OK sometimes I just get lit and feisty in the afternoons

It’s because I’ve got cancer so I’m a medical patient

And I’m trying to get rid of things and take care of my kids and I always have too many thoughts (particularly around 11am -2pm EST)

Drug yourself how you want. Just don't come on here when you're lit. Find somewhere else to spew. I have friends with cancer and none behaved the way you did so don't use your cancer as an excuse. I have a chronic illness myself and don't do this on my bad days.

I think OP is just lonely. She doesn't have any real friends. Sounds like most of her life has been about superficial BS. Must be hard as you get older

There have been plenty of threads about loneliness on DCUM over the years, and plenty of compassionate responses. OP's way of expressing herself and her obsession with money and bling are turning people off. It's just crass and mindless. DCUM is populated by a larger ratio of intellectual, non-flashy, types (even though they may be quite wealthy) than typical internet boards, so it's not a good mix.

True. There is definitely something about OP that is off putting, but I've been trying to give people more grace lately.

[Anonymous]

OP

You all could be right .. I am sure I can be off putting.

That’s OK ??? You all seem like cool people

But I never understood the thing about … if you don’t like someone … don’t follow them

I identified myself in the title of the thread … update

You’re cool to go back to whatever you want to do

[Anonymous]

Either tell us more about the bags or we don’t really care

[Anonymous]

Post like a serious person and you'll be taken seriously.

Post like a twat and you'll be taken for the twat you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This isn’t uncommon among the very wealthy.

My sister has an inlaw like this. My sister, her husbands and daughter are the only family the relative has left.

The woman and her husband were Dinks and very career focused. He was in corporate something; she worked in entertainment. Her handbags were her children, literally. Their entire mansion is packed with designer clothing, expensive handbags and top level shoes, many vintage and mostly barely worn in mint condition. A lot of stuff was,never worn with tags still attached. The wardrobe went back decades, longer than I have been alive.

My sister and her kids will have to move her into an adult facility soon. They are dreading helping her go through the stuff. There are rooms of it. The older relative said that my two nieces, who are young adults not into that kind of stuff, will get everything.

Maybe I will show them this thread to cheer them up so they can work up the energy and motivation to store and catalog the stuff, until the time comes for them to inherit it all. Right now they just keep wondering why one person needs so many expensive handbags, shoes and clothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP

You all could be right .. I am sure I can be off putting.

That’s OK ??? You all seem like cool people

But I never understood the thing about … if you don’t like someone … don’t follow them

I identified myself in the title of the thread … update

You’re cool to go back to whatever you want to do

Lol. No, they do not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn’t uncommon among the very wealthy.

My sister has an inlaw like this. My sister, her husbands and daughter are the only family the relative has left.

The woman and her husband were Dinks and very career focused. He was in corporate something; she worked in entertainment. Her handbags were her children, literally. Their entire mansion is packed with designer clothing, expensive handbags and top level shoes, many vintage and mostly barely worn in mint condition. A lot of stuff was,never worn with tags still attached. The wardrobe went back decades, longer than I have been alive.

My sister and her kids will have to move her into an adult facility soon. They are dreading helping her go through the stuff. There are rooms of it. The older relative said that my two nieces, who are young adults not into that kind of stuff, will get everything.

Maybe I will show them this thread to cheer them up so they can work up the energy and motivation to store and catalog the stuff, until the time comes for them to inherit it all. Right now they just keep wondering why one person needs so many expensive handbags, shoes and clothing.

Cope for the emptiness inside.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Dear Lord.

Stop using DCUM as your personal therapist.

With the money from your blasted bags and shoes, PAY FOR A THERAPIST. No one wants prime seats to your inner monologue, it's too stupid and not entertaining in the least.

No wonder you can't maintain real friendships and feel your erstwhile acquaintances were only out for your money. It's all you talk about!

Therapist stat so you can try to develop a smidgen of self-awareness.

This is kinda a funny saga.

Why get upset over it?

You don't get more silly and frivolous than $4000.00 shoes and handbags.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Someone who knows the internet better than I do can link to the OG post but

I recently sold a bunch of my Hermès bags to someone I used to know by professional association, I got like 70K cash for maybe 8 bags, possibly 9. I had to take an uber to the bank to deposit everything. blah blah it's a long thread

But I was just making a text joke with her about my hoarder house and she sent me back some video about how lucky she was to have a husband who indulged her ... and she said "girlfriend we have 3 storage rooms full of stuff"

And she sent me the video saying, "this is just one room"

Whaaat lol. It's like Celine Dion's storage unit. 100s of coats on racks by color, lots of orange Hermes boxes just thrown on piles helter skelter, like not even stacked neatly, like just thrown into corners. Bikes. Chanel boxes.

Whaaaaatttt They are in their 60s like I am

how do now I feel like the sane one somehow

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