Anonymous wrote:I feel deeply insecure and wary about playing all the games. Online dating makes me want to barf. If a reasonably attractive man asked me out at a bar or whatever I would probably say yes. I think all the gross misogynistic stuff I read here about older women got to my head.
Your worries are valid. I am male 47 and divorced. While your worries are valid, in reality older women have no problem sleeping with men of any age for 2 reasons. First most men don't know how to approach women so most will be turned down and as a result remain single and sexless or pay for it..And second as a woman regardless of your age if you want sex you can pick and choose the man you want to sleep with. It doesn't matter if the man wants you just for sex. I won't deny that men do like younger women, but if you are looking just for sex you won't have an issue. Now if you are saying 49 and want a serious relationship with any actractive and ambitious 29 years old while not impossible it's going to be tough. And it will be tough for men as well, I don't think any particular gender has an advantage when it comes to seriously dating younger people if they are old. But when it comes to sex ill say older women may have an advantage in part because younger men are most likely to satisfy them sexually better especially if they came from a sexless marriage. I will be honest while here are men my age who can for example c**m 3 times in a row and have PIV every day I am not one of them. God bless those 47 years old men who can achieve this naturally without ED drugs there are not many of them.
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