THIS. My staff will have 12 meetings across the division and the general counsel's office before coming to a list of potential recommendations/options. Sometimes, you just need someone to make a decision in order to make progress and move forward toward the ultimate goal. If you can make decisions and move toward the goal without upsetting delicate feelings, you're even more valuable. |
Exactly, get leg lengthening surgery or skin color bleaching so you look the part. |
You must be lawyers. I’m in engineering and we don’t have that problem among ICs. I think any field with quantitative nature understands how to break down decision points and arrive at the locally optimized choice. |
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I sit on interview panels. Every so often we get a candidate who is AMAZING. They completely blow us out of the water with their confidence, knowledge and they say exactly what they want (like if we're hiring someone, to fix X, they tell us exactly how they'll fix X). I'm actually one of the SMEs who is supposed to sus these things out and everything they say is accurate.
And then we hire them and they're the biggest duds who have zero clue what they're doing. I'm convinced these people are sociopaths. They manipulate your emotions and say what you want to hear. |
Pay attention to the clothes and shoes that senior leaders at your organization wear and dress more like them. If you have skin issues, go to the dermatologist. Get a good haircut. Or don't listen to anyone's advice and keep seething about not getting promoted. |