My friend got access to her trust at 18 but knew she also had to use it for all college expenses. She bought a used Toyota Camry and a nice laptop. She was pretty responsible! |
| $20k for a car is reasonable with today’s prices. You should have led with that, OP. You made it sound like the teen wanted to blow their trust on a Ferrari. |
| They will live and learn. It's not your money. |
I would never let my children drive a used car. A new one is far safer. You never really know how abused a used car is, after all. Bad investment. |
OMG, that is not an expensive car! You are acting like it is a luxury vehicle. |
Agree. There is no way a “majority” turnover at 18. Forbes says the most common structure is payouts at 25, 30 and 35. |
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$20K is the price of a very basic, non-luxury vehicle, OP. Why did you make us think the teen wanted to buy a Ferrari? |
NP That was my assumption too and I could see op was in a tough bind but given this new info, op is slightly a jerk to consider being a roadblock |
| If you’re not sure and you have the option to ask a judge I would, personally, but you really just need to look at the specific documents that are supposed to be governing you. |
I’d get a new advisor. |
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A used$20k car or brand new under warranty $30-40k Honda, say, that won't need a tuneup for 100,000 miles and can be kept 10 years easily?
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| I think $20K is low for a car if they need one. |
I assume you are responsible for remitting reasonable expenses. If it's a minor with a legal guardian, follow the advice of guardian. They may prefer a loan (even if it gets laid off shortly after initiation). If it's an adult, do you have any right to withhold the funds? Buying a car is within the realm of normal expenses. Get info on how much the car costs exactly, and write a check to the seller. |
$20k. The car the kid wants costs $20k |
Right? Long past college, creative peak, dating market, marriage and kids. Better than nothing, obviously, but that would be harsh. |