I can't get a brush through my hair - help!

[Anonymous]

You need more conditioner. Get a solid deep conditioner and let it really soak in. Rinse, comb when soaking wet, and then put some product in it. I have similar hair and would recommend the below.

Conditioner: This one is GREAT and inexpensive. It is very similar to a pricey Kiehl's one that I love. https://www.target.com/p/raw-sugar-healing-power-hair-masque-avocado-oil-banana-coconut-milk-agave-12-fl-oz/-/A-52615125?sid=®ion_id=223223&ref=tgt_adv_xsp&AFID=google&fndsrc=tgtao&DFA=71700000012510316&CPNG=PLA_Beauty%2BPersonal+Care_Priority%2BShopping%7CBeauty_Ecomm_Beauty&adgroup=Health%2BBeauty_Priority+TCINs&LID=700000001170770pgs&LNM=PRODUCT_GROUP&network=g&device=c&location=9008187&targetid=pla-2323947623664&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwwae1BhC_ARIsAK4Jfrxge1f-GVz3w0_wPuHu_jbzYc3cBDQhOnWbQVQemj3QDpy4kkuEHFkaAqwSEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Product: You can use this to blow your hair out or to let it air dry. If you blow it out, which I suggest you try, use a dime-sized amount and don't let it air dry for too long. If you let it air dry, put it in your hair when it is SOAKING wet, scrunch, and let air dry. https://www.sephora.com/product/dae-cactus-flower-3-in-1-styling-cream-P482668?country_switch=us&lang=en&skuId=2539542&om_mmc=ppc-GG_17791296871___2539542__9008187_c&country_switch=us&lang=en&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwwae1BhC_ARIsAK4JfrzcrRsafpO0cT_j153bM7g8AucFeUufVDAYSDgArSk5QCdVujRxtHcaAhwXEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

[Anonymous]

I started having a similar problem after pregnancy and postpartum. My hair texture had totally changed. The only thing that seems to work is the below Keratin product. I think you can use it a variety of ways but I just put it on in the shower and wait prob 1-3 minutes and rinse. Initially I did it nightly for maybe a week or two. Now I do it once or twice a week but skip some weeks. Anyway, it’s the only thing that smoothed my dry, frizzy, tangled hair and allowed me to brush it. Also, my hair is shiny again!

https://pure-keratin.com/8-seconds-hair-mask-professional-keratin-treatment-cream-smoothing-straightenig-soft-repair-damaged-frizz-hair-care-product/

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Anonymous wrote:Can your stylist brush it?

Yes, because she blows it out. I air dry, because it's super thick and frizzy and takes forever for me to dry myself.

What products do you use? Shampoo, conditioner, oil, gel, hairspray…?

Any photos online similar to your hair type, might help suggestions!

Google Lens brought up this (mine is longer, but again, I get regular trims, so there's no damage to the ends): https://www.reddit.com/r/PhotoshopRequest/comments/11xvdwo/i_took_this_photo_to_get_an_idea_of_how_id_look/

Currently using Amika Mirrorball shampoo, a small amount of Suave conditioner on the ends, and Aveda Botanical Repair serum.

Could this be part of the issue? Only using a small amount of conditioner on the ends? I’d maybe condition all over instead of just the ends, and use something specifically formulated for frizzy hair. Also consider a leave-in conditioner. It’s a Ten leave-in treatment is fantastic. You can get a small bottle to try on Amazon for $10ish.

You need a shampoo with sulfates to really clean your hair properly, your hair is maybe sticking to it self and crunchy due to buildup. Get some regular Pantene and call it a day.

Clarifying shampoo actually makes this worse.

[Anonymous]

If your hair is like the picture, it is 2A or 2B. It is not straight. You'll need to experiment to see what works best. In general, you can try shampooing less frequently, using lightweight conditioners, lightweight moisturizing products, finger combing while wet, wrapping up part of your hair while wet and letting it dry above your head, or braiding it wet and seeing whether it's less frizzy when dry.

If you really, really feel like you need to brush your hair while dry, spray with something like marc Anthony grow long leave in conditioner.

Also, really long 2a/2b hair is going to tangle some. You might want to trim it to the middle of your back and see if that helps .

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Anonymous wrote:Can your stylist brush it?

Yes, because she blows it out. I air dry, because it's super thick and frizzy and takes forever for me to dry myself.

What products do you use? Shampoo, conditioner, oil, gel, hairspray…?

Any photos online similar to your hair type, might help suggestions!

Google Lens brought up this (mine is longer, but again, I get regular trims, so there's no damage to the ends): https://www.reddit.com/r/PhotoshopRequest/comments/11xvdwo/i_took_this_photo_to_get_an_idea_of_how_id_look/

Currently using Amika Mirrorball shampoo, a small amount of Suave conditioner on the ends, and Aveda Botanical Repair serum.

Could this be part of the issue? Only using a small amount of conditioner on the ends? I’d maybe condition all over instead of just the ends, and use something specifically formulated for frizzy hair. Also consider a leave-in conditioner. It’s a Ten leave-in treatment is fantastic. You can get a small bottle to try on Amazon for $10ish.

You need a shampoo with sulfates to really clean your hair properly, your hair is maybe sticking to it self and crunchy due to buildup. Get some regular Pantene and call it a day.

Clarifying shampoo actually makes this worse.

NP- why?
Then what would you recommend?

[Anonymous]

Use a lightweight leave-in conditioner and then add a lightweight frizz- control product,

Lower cost options I have and use that have made a big difference for my frizzy hair:
- Dove Scalp + Hair Therapy Hydrating shampoo and conditioner. I also use the matching scalp serum.
- Kinky Curly Knot Today and Giovanni Frizz Be Gone are both excellent as styling, air dry products. Use a small amount of Knot Today after showering and conditioning; apply & comb through. Apply the Frizz Be Gone to ends and then comb hair again. You might need more or less, start slow and see what you need.
- once a week, use a clarifying shampoo like Aveeno’s apple cider vinegar clarifying shampoo to really get scalp and hair clean. (It smells amazing.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your hair is like the picture, it is 2A or 2B. It is not straight. You'll need to experiment to see what works best. In general, you can try shampooing less frequently, using lightweight conditioners, lightweight moisturizing products, finger combing while wet, wrapping up part of your hair while wet and letting it dry above your head, or braiding it wet and seeing whether it's less frizzy when dry.

If you really, really feel like you need to brush your hair while dry, spray with something like marc Anthony grow long leave in conditioner.

Also, really long 2a/2b hair is going to tangle some. You might want to trim it to the middle of your back and see if that helps .

+1 Your hair isn't straight. You need to use more/better products and learn the techniques to reduce frizz and align the hair patterns.

I've got 3 A/B curly hair that's very fine. The only time I brush my hair is after I've washed it, applied products and am using a curl brush to align the hair. I'd NEVER try to brush it when dry because then I'd look just like Witchiepoo (yes, I'm dating myself). I use a clarifying shampoo once a month followed my a good hair mask. I do wash my hair frequently because I work out a lot and can't stand how my hair looks/feels after sweating so much. No big deal. I just use a gentle shampoo and good condition. I finger comb it in the shower. If my hair has matted (the hair at the base of my neck is closer to 3C), I apply conditioner first, finger comb it and then shampoo. I usually apply a hair cream afterwards or a gel depending on how much control I need. In weather like today, all bets are off. I'd have to shellac my hair to avoid frizz. Into a ponytail the hair goes!