Teenage girl walking alone trail early evening — safe?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A woman was raped when she and a coworker took a walk on a trail in silver spring at lunch. Even during the day with a buddy, women are not safe.
This was a few months ago in Burnt mills area.


Was this on the news? That's horrible.
Anonymous
Absolutely not. I wouldn't do it so my kid isn't either.
Anonymous
Not in RCP. I have a friend who got into a very scary situation there. Luckily, she had her dog with her. But a guy blocked her path and wouldn’t let her pass (it was on a fairly remote, one-way uphill path with the water at the bottom); he didn’t move until she screamed at a passerby to help.
Anonymous
Nope. I wouldn't do that alone myself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I thought Chandra Levy was random.
Or did the Congressman get implicated after all?

Anyway, that's not what I would base my decision on, but I would probably also be wary and prefer a buddy system. Even on some nice weekend days there's often large stretches of that trail not seeing anyone. Maybe one of those loud whistle key chains?


Chandra Levy was completely random. It was also more than twenty years ago and very rare.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I HATE that the answer is no because she should be able to do it. But sadly the answer is no.


Same.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A woman was raped when she and a coworker took a walk on a trail in silver spring at lunch. Even during the day with a buddy, women are not safe.
This was a few months ago in Burnt mills area.


Silver spring is crime ridden and so is DC. Bethesda has unsavory people coming in from DC , may e a car dependent area like McLean or great falls is safe
Anonymous
I definitely would not.
Anonymous
Yeah. I am a dad of two girls and, unfortunately, young girls just can't do this- not alone at least. It sucks because anyone should be able to take a nice stroll in nature and enjoy it, but for girls- even for women- it isn't safe. I hike a certain trail in the area and I rarely ever see women or girls alone. It is just a sucky fact of life. But, it is better to weather her anger than deal with a horrible repercussion
Anonymous
No
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A woman was raped when she and a coworker took a walk on a trail in silver spring at lunch. Even during the day with a buddy, women are not safe.
This was a few months ago in Burnt mills area.


Silver spring is crime ridden and so is DC. Bethesda has unsavory people coming in from DC , may e a car dependent area like McLean or great falls is safe


Criminals don’t drive cars?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DD wanted to go for a long walk/hike in a trail near our home in NW (it’s the section of Rock Creek Park near the horse center). It was around 6pm, but cloudy so getting dark probably in an hour, and the trail would be mostly empty because many would be at dinner.

I was very uncomfortable with letting her go alone that far into the woods; I grew up in the country and we never ventured into the woods alone, but we had poisonous snakes and wildcats to worry about, so maybe that was a factor.

However, I always don’t like people being alone in even near wilderness; getting hurt and help can be far though phones do help with that, as well as reduce the risk of getting lost. There is the risk of robbery or sexual assault, would be a crime of opportunity and very unlikely, but if it did happen I could never live with myself for allowing it.


Partly I think I’m skittish because this trail was near Chandra Levy, but was that a targeted assault, not like she alone came across a homeless man or drug addict living the in the woods right?

Someplace like Central Park with lots of pedestrians and lights and walkway would be fine, like lower RCP, but getting into a more trail setting I’m wary?

Am I too worried about bogeyman?


Nope nope nope. I am a military veteran female myself and am teaching my daughter self defense (FIRST LESSON: Don’t put yourself in environments where you don’t have a tactical advantage.)

Going on the trail with a friend or group is much better. I wouldn’t recommend solo at that age not in today’s DC!

Signed, 50 years old but still can’t forget being assaulted at 14 years old in a park before I knew what to do to protect myself.





Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I thought Chandra Levy was random.
Or did the Congressman get implicated after all?

Anyway, that's not what I would base my decision on, but I would probably also be wary and prefer a buddy system. Even on some nice weekend days there's often large stretches of that trail not seeing anyone. Maybe one of those loud whistle key chains?


Chandra Levy was completely random. It was also more than twenty years ago and very rare.


It’s rare, but is that because women rarely go off into woods anymore alone?
Anonymous
No. Arlington is pretty safe but in winter my walk ends around sunset and I have my Birdie and change my route to do the wooded part first.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:DD wanted to go for a long walk/hike in a trail near our home in NW (it’s the section of Rock Creek Park near the horse center). It was around 6pm, but cloudy so getting dark probably in an hour, and the trail would be mostly empty because many would be at dinner.

I was very uncomfortable with letting her go alone that far into the woods; I grew up in the country and we never ventured into the woods alone, but we had poisonous snakes and wildcats to worry about, so maybe that was a factor.

However, I always don’t like people being alone in even near wilderness; getting hurt and help can be far though phones do help with that, as well as reduce the risk of getting lost. There is the risk of robbery or sexual assault, would be a crime of opportunity and very unlikely, but if it did happen I could never live with myself for allowing it.


Partly I think I’m skittish because this trail was near Chandra Levy, but was that a targeted assault, not like she alone came across a homeless man or drug addict living the in the woods right?

Someplace like Central Park with lots of pedestrians and lights and walkway would be fine, like lower RCP, but getting into a more trail setting I’m wary?

Am I too worried about bogeyman?


You are right. I ran competitively in high school and college and grew up in a rural area (“the country” as you say) and I was and continue to be very skittish about running on trails solo. I still am. Even when running on roads I prioritize trying to squeeze in runs when it’s light out. Rock Creek Park does not feel super safe to me during the day and at dusk… no. Between cell service issues and there being no one around in a scary situation to help. Hard pass.
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