Are doulas recommended?
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Anonymous
| 22:09 again. I did not feel any pressure toward an unmedicated birth from my doula— maybe the opposite! |
Anonymous
| No. Save the money for a night nurse way better use of money. |
Anonymous
| I think of it as a lot like working with a real estate agent. A good one has been through the process a million times and can give you all kinds of context, advice, and questions to ask. A bad one will make you wish you’d gone it alone! |
Anonymous
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I think the right doula can be helpful if (and only if) you want an unmedicated birth. I did not have a doula, wanted an epidural, and had a great experience with the WHC midwives.
The best thing you can do to prepare for birth is to go in with zero expectations. It’s okay to have preferences, but in my opinion, women who have dead set plans and ideas in their head about what the whole experience is going to be like end up disappointed or feeling negatively. |