Agreed, and the way the school and the day is structured can really impact how much time and energy is spent on transitions. For instance, at our current school (which we are working to make our former school for a variety of reasons including this), lunch is done on a strict rotating schedule with very little room for error, and then kids get recess after lunch on that same schedule. The school's layout sucks and my kid is currently in "the annex" which of course is about as far from the cafeteria as possible. This means my kid's class spends a good 20-30 minutes "transitioning" to lunch, because that's how long it takes to get 20 kindergarteners to the other side of the building with all their lunch stuff and into seats and eating. The other classes have similar issues. So what happens literally every day is that lunch does not start on time, for anyone, and kids wind up spending time standing around in the hallway waiting for the prior group to finish so that they can go inside and eat, and that pushes back their recess time. So about every 3 out of 5 days, my kid doesn't get outdoor recess because there isn't time, because she's spent the better part of an hour standing around in various lines or walking down hallways so that she can eat her lunch in the room she is supposed to eat it in the order she is supposed to eat it according to the school schedule. It's not acceptable. The fact that crap like this is why my kid's school day is 8 hours long absolutely makes me want a different approach to school that might take less time but focuses more on how kids' experience the day and what will best facilitate learning and enjoying school (enjoying school is actually really important for student retention and helps decrease truancy and behavioral issues). A 3.5 hour school day where kids don't spend any time standing around in hallways waiting to be let into rooms, followed by a lunch and recess that can be longer and more relaxed, followed by an afternoon focused on arts, outdoor learning, physical activity, socio-emotional learning, and just play (all of which currently gets shoehorned into the margins of my child's 8 hour school day because they are at the bottom of the priorities list), sounds about perfect. And there is no reason, other than lack of will and disinterest in the experiences of children, that we can't do this in the US. |
| That’s basically my K’s schedule at his private K-8. Academics in the morning, broken up by recess. Lunch followed by specials and SEL. Only problem is there is one academic block (math) which is in the afternoon. It is his least favorite subject since he is tired by then :-/ I wish they could switch it up so it wouldn’t always be math in the afternoon. |
This isn't about the kids, it's about the parent. This poster wants her kids in bed and asleep so she can have time alone with her husband. |
Why not just change how we do school so the afternoons are like aftercare? Oh wait, we won’t fund the staffing and space required for that |
There are several reasons. If every grade had your ideal schedule you wouldn’t be able to staff that many arts teachers just for half a day at a time. You wouldn’t have enough classroom or outdoor space for the afternoons either. |
| Op, I think what you want is private, but it costs $$ |
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OP has a couple of choices:
-move to a country with a shorter school day (because US schools won't do this, and even if she tried to lobby for it, the school system would outlast her and her kids would be in HS before it could ever happen - but it won't) -pay for a mythical private school relatively close to where she's living and pay more for less school -get over it |
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Agreed OP. Young kids cortisol levels reach stressed levels in all day programs.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2946618/ The thing is (and any teacher or low income parent cat attest) we don’t organize our society around the needs of children for optimal development. We just blame teachers and women when things don’t go well. |
Another thing to blame on teachers. The length of the school day. Ridiculous. |
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Well I guess school should just keep being bad for kids. What was I thinking, wanting to improve it? Silly me.
Y’all are depressing. |
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The problems kids are having have little to do with the #of hours kids are in school. The number of hours has been status for decades. Perhaps it is the environment and culture changes, both in the school and outside of the school, that is the issue.
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There's also home school, if your work schedule is flexible enough and you work from home. Once a kid can read this is a real possibility. |
1st grade in Germany goes to school from 8 - 11:15, has a break, does art, PE, and music. As the kids get older, some days school goes to 12:15 or 1, with more breaks added. |
So it all comes down to school as childcare, not what's best for the kids. |
We have been telling you school is just glorified daycare forever. Yes, duh! If anything, parents would like kids warehoused from 7a to 7p and have an option to include dinner so all they have to do is wash them up and put them to bed. Why even have kids at that point???? |