Are you envious of people with a large social circle?
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Anonymous
I used to have a large group of friends in undergrad. After that, it has become impossible to find a group of like-minded women - at most, have had 1-1 friendships. And I see friends of mine, in other cities, able to make such connections even now. And that makes me envious  Wonder if its just my circumstance or me..I do send out invitations and follow-up, but not too many responses.
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Anonymous
| Nope. The older you get, the more family and work responsibilities you have, the gladder you are that you have just a few good friends and not a cast of thousands. |
Anonymous
| No, because there's very few people worth knowing or hanging out with. |
Anonymous
| yes. |
Anonymous
Totally agree with this. Too big of a social circle would overwhelm me, and I don't have time for the drama usually involved with a large social circle. I love what I have right now. It is the perfect balance. |
Anonymous
| I find that the best new connections are friends of friends. I meet people at weddings, parties, baby showers etc and if I have a nicer-than-usual conversation, I'll get their contact info and try to organize a follow-up meeting. They don't always turn into close friends, but even the one or two that have make it worth my while. |
Anonymous
| What is large to you? 10 friends in a group? or 4/5? |
Anonymous
| Nope. I am an introvert and a "sloth". People exhaust me. I have a few very good friends and some acquaintances and I honestly don't have the time or the energy for more. Just reading about the endless girls' weekends, sorority meetups, mommy get-togethers and vineyard tours people post about on FB are exhausting to me. Hanging out with my family with the occasional dinner out with a friend or two here and there are plenty for me. But I know I am probably in the minority here. |
Anonymous
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I have a large social circle that's much bigger than I realized. I was planning a party and inviting only the people I know well (and their families) and my list was at 90. My group of friends has known each other for many years and I am the newest in the group having joined three or four years ago.
My kids are changing schools and I can only imagine the circle getting bigger. Oddly enough I am a pretty social person but I prefer small groups. I like to have just a couple of ladies over for wine vs. a large party. |
Anonymous
| No. I have become a misanthrope. I am a prime candidate for turning into a crazy cat lady except I hate cats. |
Anonymous
ITA. |
Anonymous
I could have written this! |
Anonymous
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No, I like the handful of good friends I have.
But I am jealous of families that have a lot of similar-aged families in their immediate neighborhood that all hang out. I am surrounded by octogenarians. Very nice folks, but not the same. |
Anonymous
If you have two REAL friends, consider yourself lucky. |
Anonymous
Me too! Maybe the three of us should get together at a nice, quiet restaurant for a glass of wine, about once every three months? |