my 11 year old asked what S&M is today
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Anonymous
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so much for a relaxing day of monopoly with the kids....
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Anonymous
| what are you talking abuot? |
Anonymous
| So either tell him, or just say "It's a grownup thing; I'll tell you when you're older." |
Anonymous
| Or just say "Social Media" : ) |
Anonymous
| Or just open that cabinet, and show her some examples. |
Anonymous
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadomasochism Google is your friend. |
Anonymous
My 12 yr old asked me what a "strap-on" is. 
That was fun to explain. Apparently overheard that one at school.....WTF? |
Anonymous
| Spaghetti and meatballs! |
Anonymous
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OP, it is daunting but I think it is best to try to answer as honestly as you can, and NOT say I'll tell you when you are older.
The more matter of fact you can be the better and you keep the lines of communication open with your child. You want your child to feel he can ask you anything -- better to have information coming from you than from friends, in my opinion. |
Anonymous
Wow, that's awkward! |
Anonymous
| Where do you think your child picked up this term? TV? Computer? Other kids? |
Anonymous
| My 10 year old once asked me if I was sad I didn't have a vagina (I'm her mom, so in fact I do). After telling her I do indeed have a vagina I found out that she thought because I had her and her younger siblings (just had our youngest dc) via c section that ment I was vagina-less. "sorry mom I figured that's why they cut your stomach open because you had no baby hole next to your pee hole". |
Anonymous
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My child asked me if it was physically impossible for a boy to lick his own penis.
He heard it on the school bus. |
Anonymous
Haven't you heard the old joke: "Why do dogs lick their balls? Because they can." The joke is ancient, but leads directly to the question above. |
Anonymous
| I think it's great your child is comfortable enough to ask! Way to go Mom! |