Holy cow. |
It's almost like they didn't invent regression analysis centuries ago. |
DCUM dumbass count+1 |
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I have no doubt Ivy League degrees help people get MBB and similar jobs. We all know who those "prestigious firms" hire and why.
The notion though that Ivy League schools actually confer abilities that other environments cannot, however, is pure conjecture. In my workplace being competitive is not a desirable trait. |
| Princeton was the cheapest offer we got, cheaper than in state. Why wouldnt we grab that |
You’re grasping to understand things you don’t quite comprehend. What the top schools teach you culturally is how to co-exist with highly accomplished peers, not to be overtly competitive in professional settings. The competitive strivers are those who bubbled up from second and third-tier schools and go through life with a big chip on their shoulders constantly having to prove themselves. |
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What’s interesting to me as my education got more elite through grad school (not Ivy) it is was generally that I strongly disliked the high ego/hardworking/great resume students even as I saw them succeed around me. In work, similarly, these types of people turn me off. It might of course be that I’m an introverted person with a sense of personal justice that verges on carrying grudges. So a Lyndon Johnson or Zuckerberg or Ted Cruz or Tom Cruise is likely to not hit it off with me.
I don’t know what to do with that. I was a good student from a school that didn’t produce many. So not acculturated. Maybe it’s a class thing. I just wonder what to do about my kids - don’t I want them to succeed? But I don’t want them to be the kind of people I see succeed in a lot of places in the meritocracy. Confused. Probably need a little psych help but I wonder if driving my kids toward high success schools like ivies means they succeed but are no longer like me, in several ways. |
I don’t understand that comment. Literally all the people at the top of their area are competitive. Professors, medical labs/researchers, doctors, musicians, actors, NPO founders…literally everything …you read or watch interviews and they talk about their competitive drive. |
None of those fields are well suited to work life balance especially with young kids |
You seem like you would prefer the old ideal of the Ivy League—the genteel white shoe lawyer, the third generation Harvard legacy who doesn’t study that hard and is happy with a gentleman’s C, a world where job referrals come with a handshake with the dad of your fellow Finals Club member, and people studied “useless” subjects like the humanities because their families already had money and so they didn’t feel pressure to “make it big” to raise up the circumstances of rest of their family. Those days are long gone, as the type pf student they admit has changed. |
The ivy leaguers I have worked with did not learn that lesson at all lol |
Well “literally everything” means everything else as well. I don’t know any field where being competitive is undesirable. What does this discussion have to do with work life balance? |
You have illustrated exactly how many Ivy Leaguers view non Ivy Leaguers and it is not a good look at all. |
In my definition of success and what I want for my kid work life balance is absolutely critical..so much of this thread and how it describes thr "opportunities" that an Ivy League degree gives you make me just think "but why would I want that?" |
Saying literally multiple times doesn’t make your opinion literally true. Just FYI. |