OP here my DD does swim 2 x a week and Girl Scouts. She now has joined activities after school. All by her choice. Getting out 5:30 2 times a week is an issue but 6 would not work. So she would not be able to participate at her school’s activities. Elementary normal time of 4:05 is to late for little kids |
It's not new, but the ovrerscheduling has gotten a bit out of control. |
Again - this is your opinion. Other people disagree, as is their right. I personally prefer the later start times and getting out after 4 isn't a problem for our family. Please stop telling other people their opinions are ridiculous. |
DP. The chip on your shoulder is absolutely enormous. |
This sounds miserable, chaotic, and tiring. Your poor overscheduled kids. DP |
Are you seriously not? |
Step out of your bubble sometime, eh? |
Spoken like a lower energy person. I was in a lot of activities as a kid and thrived. I always did very well in school (which was always prioritized) and had my college tuition paid for by a sport. I feel better when I am busy and moving a lot. Sitting around with a lot of unstructured time has always made me feel out of sorts. Everyone is free to do what works best for their kids. Just because you and yours don’t like it doesn’t mean others can’t. |
I have two kids. One is like you and thrives on multiple activities. The other needs a lot of alone time. She's not moping, she is reading and doing other things on her own. She does have other activities--but no where near as many as her sibling. Answer: know your kid. |
There are already a ton of elementary schools that get out after 4:00 Those elenentary schools will now get out between 4:30-4:45. |
What part of E do you not understand? The latest time any elementary school would get out is 4:35 pm. No school would go to 4:45 pm. JFC. |
I don't like my kids' 4:05 end time, I would like a 4:35 end time even less. |
Right back at you. |
DP. I love my kid's current 4:05 end time and would like a 4:35 end time even more if it meant school was also starting later. Isn't it great we all get an opinion? |
DP, I think they're planning on re-surveying to this time include ES and HS families as well, since most of the options affect one or more of these levels significantly, not just MS. I suspect such a survey will find you are in the significant minority in your view of a 4:35p ES end time. Sadly, such an effort is basically a waste of time, because it's just delaying them making a decision and in the meantime MS kids continue to (with exceptions) suffer for it. The outcome of a re-survey will be to discover, shockingly, that there is no consensus amongst parents. They should just settle on a plan that aligns with AAP recommendation to start MS/HS at 830a or later and beyond that pick the one they think is logistically the most feasible/desirable for the majority of families... no super early start times, no super late start times. Option B seems the best candidate in this regard. But instead they'll just keep spinning without making a decision. There's no new information they're going to receive that's going to better inform this decision, but sadly inaction on big/hard choices generally seems to be the theme (we'll see if they stick to their temporarily found courage on boundary adjustments). |